Fairhaven UMC

United Methodist Church

  • Fairhaven Sermon 7-26-2026

    Summary

    In this week’s service, [Pastor’s Name] addressed common misconceptions regarding the Apostle Paul and the nature of the Gospel. While many view Paul’s writings as harsh or exclusionary compared to the comforting image of Jesus, the sermon highlighted that both reveal a consistent truth. Focusing on his letter to the Romans, [Pastor’s Name] explained that Paul was not introducing new doctrine but was providing pastoral care to strengthen an existing faith, guiding believers through the ongoing process of sanctifying grace and spiritual transformation.

    The sermon then delved into the profound reassurances found in Romans 8, emphasizing that God is fundamentally “for us.” Even amidst real-world suffering, persecution, and moments of deep anguish where we feel abandoned, Paul reminds us that nothing—neither death nor life—can separate us from the love of Christ. By reflecting on how God transformed the injustice of the crucifixion into a victory for all humanity, [Pastor’s Name] concluded that while God does not cause our suffering, He is able to work through and despite it, ensuring a sweeping victory through the one who loves us.

    So, lots and lots of people. This is true of Christians. It’s of people who are non-Christians or people who used to be Christians. Lots of people have a big problem with the Apostle Paul. And it’s not uncommon for Paul to be seen as the root of basically all that’s wrong with the church across history and today. Anything bad, we can point to a letter in Paul and be like, what? You know, there’s accusations of that’s where the sexism comes from in the church, homophobia, collaboration with tyrants and empires, the toleration and support of slavery that the church has participated in throughout history.

    The same way that it’s popularly understood that there’s this violent and irrational God of the Old Testament compared with the loving God of the New Testament, which is officially a highly regarded heresy, by the way, and is not true the more familiar you get with the Bible. There’s often understood the same way to be Jesus’s gospel and Paul’s gospel. There’s one that Jesus’s gospel is nice and it’s comforting. It’s uplifting. It’s justice-oriented. And then you have Paul’s that’s mean and exclusive. This is not the case. This is just not the way it is.

    And first, I would point to our gospel reading from this morning, from Matthew. We have the good, familiar parables in there, the mustard seed, all that, the yeast. But the one that we don’t often hear preached about is this parable from Jesus where he describes the angels going out and separating the evil ones from the righteous ones at the end of the age, throwing the evil ones in a burning fire where they’ll weep and gnash their teeth. That’s Jesus. Jesus is not universally this cuddly figure that we have in Sunday school artwork and it’s wrong to equate the way that Jesus loves us with this kind of squishy niceness anyway. And on the flip side of that, nor is the Apostle Paul this unkind, neurotic, well, he might be neurotic, but exclusionary guy that he’s caricatured to be.

    And we’ll get to the text itself of Romans 8 shortly, but it’s worth understanding the background of what we’re hearing today. We’re jumping right into the middle of a letter here. And Romans, naturally, is a letter written by Paul to the Christian community of Rome, the capital of the greatest empire in the world. Rome is the center, the seat of the known world at this point. And the Roman church is a predominantly Gentile church. There’s not a lot of Jews present, at least anymore, in the church in Rome. And already, 25 or so years after Jesus has ascended, Christ followers in Rome and everywhere else exist in great tension with the world around them.

    And fascinatingly, Romans is the only letter that we have from Paul that was written to a church that he did not personally establish. Paul’s relationship with the Romans is mainly through letters. It’s through this letter, as far as we know so far. And so all that he’s writing here is pretty brave, because as he writes this letter to the Romans, he’s daring to claim this spiritual, this pastoral authority over them, despite having even never met them face to face. This is like the church at Fairhaven getting a letter from another pastor who’s writing, you know, this is what you need to understand about the gospel. That’s brave. It’s bold.

    And he opens the book of Romans by telling the Romans why he’s writing. In chapter 1, he says that his proclamation of the gospel, of good news, is intended to strengthen them. That’s why he’s writing. He wants to help them establish their belief. He wants to help them send down deep roots. And in the words of Romans 16:26, he says he wants to help them grow into the obedience of faith. And so all of this, this background, means that he’s not bringing them something new. He’s building up a faith that they already have. The seeds have have been planted and he’s offering his care, his wisdom, and nourishing them. He’s seeking to build up this church full of people he’s never met, that’s under immense pressure in a really key, important place.

    So why does all this matter? Well, this letter is pastoral care because Paul is, after all, best understood as a pastor, maybe a bishop. And this letter is theology for people who already know Jesus and are seeking to grow into him more fully. And so if that’s who this letter is for, that means it was good for the Romans and it’s good for us because we’re in that same situation. This letter isn’t for people who don’t know about Jesus. It’s to drill down for those who already do. And I think it’s helpful to think about it as evangelism for people who have already been evangelized. And that’s a really profound concept, I think, once you start thinking about it.

    It reminds us that we’re always in the process of converting to Christ, of being converted by Christ, of becoming more Christian, better disciples. In Methodist terms, this is called sanctifying grace, which means that salvation is not just this one-time transaction, gets us pardoned from hell, and then we move on. Salvation is this ongoing therapeutic process, this lifelong process of healing, of restoration. And we need, like the Romans, we need the good news articulated to anews throughout our lives, speaking to wherever we are and where we have been. And that’s part of what the church does for each other. That’s why we don’t just read the book at home alone. We’re living it out, understanding what the life of Jesus means to us in community, together. We speak it to each other. That’s what a sermon is for, is proclaiming the good news again and again to where we are in life.

    And chapter 8, where we end up this morning in Romans, offers one of the most poignant expressions of that good news in all of Scripture. And what Paul offers here to the Romans, what he offers to us, is this deep, eternal reassurance and comfort. And it’s not abstract. It’s emerging from really real struggle and pain that Paul has experienced and that the Romans have experienced. And so virtually all of the agonies, the threats that Paul has written about here in chapter 8 are things he’s already experienced on behalf of Jesus Christ and on the church.

    And so whenever Paul writes here, “Who will separate us from the love of Christ? Will we be separated by trouble or distress or harassment or famine or nakedness or danger or sword?” He’s not asking that as a rhetorical question. He’s asking that as somebody who can say with confidence that he knows the answer firsthand. Paul has not had it easy. He’s not speaking in abstraction, writing from some comfortable office about other people’s pain and what Jesus means in the midst of it. He’s not given an ivory tower sort of witness as to what Jesus can do. He can speak credibly as a witness to the power of the Spirit to carry God’s people through their lives. And by the time he writes this letter, he hasn’t faced the full brunt of the sword yet, but he will. Within 20 years after writing this letter, he’s martyred under Emperor Nero. He’s beheaded for his preaching, for his ministry, under one of the worst persecutions of Christians.

    And so Paul’s vision here is of this life of faith under fire. And he offers us a zoomed out view of what it means to be a Christian. He gives us a bigger picture to help us understand what’s happening in our lives when we feel isolated in our worst moments. He’s putting us all in the bigger picture. Whenever we feel like we don’t know what we’re doing, whenever we don’t feel like we know what God’s doing, that we’re alone, that everything we’re attempting is just this pointless pain and tribulation that’s irredeemable. Paul tells us to remember that the Holy Spirit is with us always in ways that we cannot begin to understand. Paul writes that the Spirit comes to help our weakness. Even when we don’t know what to pray, and that happens so often for me, more than I like to think about, whenever we don’t know what to pray, Paul says the Spirit prays for us.

    And the Spirit doesn’t try to put that into some clean, nicely packaged memo for the Father. God doesn’t need these articulate, careful, point-by-point prayers. No, Paul says the Spirit pleads our case with unexpressed groans. The Spirit, which is God, God groans in pain on our behalf when we are in pain. God feels it so deeply that God is groaning in pain. And there’s no situation where this isn’t the case, regardless of how it feels in the moment.

    Again, Paul pulls us out, and he offers words of profound reassurance here. We know, he says, that God works all things together for the good of the ones who love God, for those who are even called according to his purpose. And this often gets kind of misstated, I think, this word of reassurance, and it gets turned into kind of a cheap “everything happens for a reason” kind of saying. We’re tempted to say that sort of stuff to each other when someone else is hurting and we don’t really know what to say: “Everything happens for a reason.” Paul’s not really saying that. Paul does not say that suffering is good, that God is behind our suffering and is doing it for a reason. That is not anything that’s being said in this passage. But what Paul is saying here is that God is able to work within it, within the suffering, through it, despite it, in such a way that we can be made more like Jesus, conformed to the Son, he says.

    And this is one of our greatest Methodist foundations, too. John Wesley spoke often of the notion of Christian perfection. Perfection being a verb and not a noun. And it’s this idea that we can cooperate with the Spirit day by day until we’re turned to pure Christ-like love, not just in heaven, but here on earth, that we can cooperate with the Spirit so fully that we can live like Jesus in the world. And Jesus himself serves as the example here of the kinds of transformation that God works, of suffering and darkness into light and goodness. The crucifixion, I don’t think you can possibly read the Gospels and think, the crucifixion was a good thing. That’s not the point. But God was able to turn it into a good thing. He was able to turn the cross, this evil device of torture, of injustice, into a sign that death and hell are conquered and powerless. It’s not that the crucifixion became good, it’s that the outcome was transformed by God.

    And God does this kind of alchemy, almost. Whenever we hand to God the most painful, most meaningless, blackest things we face in our lives, God transforms it into gold. The timetable might not be the one we like. It might not be instant. We might not see it now. It might be eternal on that kind of timetable, but it’s transformed, and the cross becomes this sign of life. And here we get to the peak of Romans 8, when Paul asks another rhetorical question. He says, “So what are we to say about these things? So what? What does all this mean?” And he answers with another question: “If God is for us, who is against us? He didn’t spare his own son, but gave him up for us all. Won’t he freely give us all things with him?”

    And this is the primary point here, the single greatest takeaway in Romans 8 of this discussion of who God is and the meaning of our lives, of our faith, of our suffering, of our effort: God is for us. God is not some cold-hearted judge who’s carefully weighing out our actions to see if we have earned enough to be rewarded with heaven or, oops, condemned to hell. That’s not what God does. Instead, Paul says it’s God who acquits his people. Not only is God not prosecuting us, God’s not a prosecutor, but Jesus is our defender, pleading our case, Paul says, to the Father who’s already waiting to declare us innocent anyway. Again, God is for us, and we can know this because he gave up his Son so the cross of suffering could become this place that salvation comes from.

    And Paul moves through this chapter, and he moves towards that final rhetorical question here: “Who will separate us from the love of Christ Jesus our Lord?” And we know the answer before he even begins this list. He knows that he’s built up that we know the answer. But it’s worth pausing to hear it again and notice something. These few verses, particularly verses 35 through 39, they’re a common text at funerals. I use these all the time. “Who will separate us from Christ’s love? Will we be separated by trouble or distress or harassment or famine or nakedness or danger or sword? As it is written: We are being put to death all day long for your sake. We are treated like sheep for slaughter. But in all these things, we win a sweeping victory through the one who loved us. I’m convinced that nothing could separate us from God’s love in Christ Jesus our Lord. Not death, nor life, not angels, nor rulers, not present things, nor future things, not powers, nor height, nor depth, or any other thing that is created.”

    And whenever I read this text, particularly at funerals, I always get tripped up in the middle, where Paul seems to take this quick, hard left turn. And he says, “As it is written, we are being put to death all day long for your sake. We are treated like sheep for the slaughter.” That line, Paul quotes it from Psalm 44. It always feels to me like it’s interrupting the flow of the thing. We have this buildup of all this hope in Christ, and then we get, “we’re being sent like sheep to the slaughter.” And I’m almost tempted to skip it, especially in the context of a funeral. Everyone around in that room really needs to hear a word of hope, and here we have this little sharp line. This chapter consists of assurance after assurance of the faithfulness of God, of a fierce proclamation that God is for us, and then comes that really dark little line.

    And what are we supposed to make of that? The biblical scholar Susan Eastman, who I learned pastored down the river in Aliquippa for a time, which I think is interesting, she suggests that what we see here in that line is an acknowledgement of bitterness, that the good news doesn’t always go down easily, that it doesn’t always feel all that good in the moment. Paul, again, is writing to very persecuted Christians, and he’s writing to all of those who struggle then and who struggle now following Jesus in a world where that’s not easy. They know they’re facing pain for your sake, talking to Jesus, and they are feeling that pain. They know it is because they are following Jesus. They’re choosing this hard life of faith, and they’re suffering because of it.

    And Susan Eastman says that when this tone clashes with the surrounding assurance of the goodness of God through it all, she says, it’s as if the cry of the oppressed suddenly interrupts a beautiful liturgy, which is exactly what it feels like at a funeral. She continues that to hear this tension is to begin to know that divine love does not silence the pain of those who suffer unjustly, but allows it to be expressed in its raw anguish. We can know that God is good while also not feeling it all the time. We can be aware that God will turn our suffering to gold while rightly hating that we’re in a position to suffer at all. And there is room for that. Just as there was room on the cross when Jesus quoted a psalm and Jesus cried out to God, “My God, my God, why have you forsaken me?” God’s love can hold that. It’s big enough to hold our anger, our bitterness, even Jesus’ certainty on the cross that he has been abandoned; God can accept that twinge of bitterness in the midst of faithfulness.

    But Paul doesn’t leave us there. He keeps going. Even in the bitterness, even in the pain, he moves forward after that line and he says, “I’m convinced that nothing can separate us from God’s…” And these hostile powers, these rulers, they transcend space and time. Paul was talking to a certain group of threats, of rulers and struggles, but they’re different wherever we find ourselves. We see in our current day authoritarian regimes. We see policies that target vulnerable people, airstrikes in war zones, domestic violence in the home, gun violence on the streets. Paul didn’t really experience most of those things, but the promise is universal. Worldly powers can destroy buildings, they can kill people, but they still can’t cut the love that connects us to God in Christ.

    And something important about the way that Paul speaks here is to notice the way he speaks really expansively and without condemnation here. The way that he is writing is not as a critique of individual human beings as units and sources of evil. Paul could have named names. It was very clear who was doing the prosecuting, the persecuting, who was making Christians’ lives miserable, and who was standing against the kingdom of God. But he doesn’t. His proclamation here is against powers and rulers of death and of the forces of darkness. And that means that Paul understands here that in the big picture, Emperor Nero is not the enemy. This guy that’s going to kill Paul, that persecutes the church, that feeds Christians to lions, that burns down his capital city—Nero’s not really the problem. The sin that binds Nero is the problem.

    God is for us, Paul says, and that means that God is just as much for the persecutor as the persecuted as long as they’re willing to lay down their hostility towards the kingdom of God, to love him and to hear the call to God’s purpose. Paul would know that better than anybody else. It’s not about the individual. It’s about the sin that holds them back.

    And so the gospel from the apostle Paul to the church in Rome and to us is good news beyond what we could imagine or hope for. It comes from one who knows suffering, speaking about a God who knows suffering to a church full of people who have lived lives of pain and, in many cases, persecution because of their faith in Christ. But in all these things, Paul says, we win a sweeping victory through the one who loves us. Our world, our souls continue to groan too deeply for words. Rulers and powers rage. We feel that we’re at great heights and depths that keep us from seeing God. But God is for us. In life, in death, we are confident that we are held by love that won’t let us go.

    In the name of the Father, and the Son, and the Holy Spirit. Amen. Amen.

  • Announcements 7-26-2026

    Back-to-School Dollar Sale

    • Event: Mission sale offering new and lightly used clothing and shoes for $1 to $2
    • Location: Hilltop UMC
    • Time: Saturday, August 8, 2026, at 9:00 AM
    • Details: Helping neighbors in the community.
    • Contact: Lou Ann (Stormie’s mother)

    Thank You from Pastor Peg

    • Event: Acknowledgment of a farewell gift from Pastor Peg
    • Location: Fairhaven UMC
    • Time: The congregation was shown the gift on Sunday, July 26, 2026.
    • Details: A framed “Love Never Fails” Corinthians verse sent with love and prayers for God’s blessing, to be hung in the church.
  • Summary

    In this week’s service, Rev. Steve Mcllaine explores the difficult question of why evil seems to exist alongside goodness and why God does not immediately remove it from the world. Reflecting on the parable of the wheat and the weeds, he illustrates how our desire for immediate justice can often overlook God’s greater plan. Just as the farmer allowed the weeds to remain to protect the integrity of the wheat, we are reminded that God’s timing is different than our own, working within the complexities of a world where both beauty and brokenness coexist.

    Rev. Mcllaine further encourages the congregation to look inward, acknowledging that believers are simultaneously saints and sinners. Rather than spending our energy condemning darkness or judging others based on their mistakes, he calls us to focus on growing like “good wheat”—bearing fruit through compassion, forgiveness, and Christ’s light. By trusting in God’s infinite patience and the promise of a future harvest, we can live with hope, knowing that God is actively working to transform lives and will eventually make all things right.

    One of the hardest things for Christians to understand is why evil seems to exist along goodness. We ask questions like, why do bad things happen to good people? Why do dishonest people seem to prosper? And why doesn’t God just remove evil from the world? These aren’t new questions; as a matter of fact, Jesus’s disciples were asking these same questions. So Jesus tells them a story: a farmer had carefully planted good wheat in his field. Everything was done right, just like he had said—the seed is good, the soil was ready, and the future looks promising. But while everyone was asleep, an enemy secretly comes into the field and plants weeds among the wheat. When the plants began to grow, the servants noticed a problem. “All right? So, master,” they asked, “did you sow good seeds? Where did these weeds come enough from?” The farmer answered simply, “The enemy has done this.”

    Then comes this surprising part, right? The workers immediately offer to pull up the weeds, but the farmer says, “No, don’t do it.” Why? Why would he say that? Because the roots of the weeds and the wheat had become intertwined. Pulling the weeds now would pull out the wheat as well. So instead, he says, let both grow together until the harvest is ready. That isn’t how we want a story to end, is it? Nah. We wanted immediate justice. That evil person should be paying for this, right? Or we want the wrongs corrected today—justice right now. We want evil to be removed right now. But Jesus says God’s timing is different than ours.

    The world Jesus describes in today’s parable is remarkably like ours, isn’t it? Think about it for a minute. There’s beauty, there’s kindness, there’s faithful people serving everywhere, every day. Yet alongside them is violence, hatred, greed, dishonesty, selfishness. Sometimes those weeds grow very close to us, don’t they? Sometimes they’re in our workplaces. Sometimes they’re in our communities. Sometimes they’re even in our own families. And if we’re honest with ourselves, sometimes those weeds grow in our own lives. Martin Luther once said that believers are simultaneously saints and sinners. God has planted grace within us, but we continue to $struggle with temptation and sin. Every day, we find ourselves asking forgiveness for things that we’ve said or things that we’ve done or things that we’ve just failed to do. This parable isn’t only about looking out at our world; it’s also about looking inward, inside us.

    The servants wanted to solve the problem. They wanted to solve it immediately. They thought that they knew exactly what needed to be done to remove those weeds, right? But the farmer knew something that they didn’t. You see, human beings aren’t always very good judges. We kind of get emotional sometimes and let things get in the way of making good judgments. How often have we judged somebody too quickly? How often have we written somebody off just because they make one mistake? How often have we assumed that someone could never change? Yet throughout Scripture, we see God transforming people no one ever expected: Moses—Moses was a murderer; Paul—Paul persecuted Christians; David—David committed adultery; Peter—Peter denied Jesus. Yet God wasn’t finished with them. Had someone pulled the weeds out back then, the world would have never been able to witness what God was doing through these lives.

    God sees possibilities that we cannot see. Perhaps the greatest lesson in today’s gospel is God’s patience. God could force judgment today if he wanted to. Instead, he offers another day, another sunrise, another opportunity for repentance, another chance to receive his grace. Every day we wake up is evidence of God’s mercy. Peter writes, “The Lord is patient with you, not wanting any to perish, but everyone to come to repentance.” What patience God has shown us, each and every one of us. There are moments in our lives when we wander far from God—moments when we’ve doubted the existence, moments when we’ve failed to be obedient. Yet God never stopped calling us back. He says, “Come on.” His arms are always open, ready to receive us. His mercy kept reaching towards us. Come back. That same mercy is extended to everyone: even addicts, even homeless, even good people who are doing everything right.

    But notice something important. That wheat doesn’t spend its time worrying about the weeds, does it? No. It just simply keeps growing and growing and growing until it’s ready, right? So what if Christians spent less energy condemning darkness and more energy shining Christ’s light? What happens in a dark room when you turn on the lights? The darkness goes away, doesn’t it? Yeah. Imagine churches known for compassion instead of criticism. Imagine believers recognized for forgiveness rather than judgment. Imagine communities where people see Jesus because they experience his love through us. That’s what healthy wheat does. It grows. It bears fruit and it nourishes others.

    Years ago, a church welcomed a man who had lived a difficult life. He had struggled with addictions, spent time in jail, carried with him some deep regrets. Some people wondered if he really belonged there. But one older member simply welcomed him every Sunday. She remembered his name. She saved him a seat, prayed for him faithfully. She never rushed or tried to force change. She just simply reflected Christ’s love. Months turned into years. Slowly, his life began to change. Eventually, he found some steady work, repaired relationships that had been broken with his family, and eventually, he began helping others who were facing the same struggles that he had gone through. If people had judged only by what they first saw, they might have missed what God was growing. Patient love becomes the soil where new life takes root. Let me say it again: patient love becomes the soil where new life takes root. God’s grace is often at work slowly, but it works deeply.

    Now, Jesus doesn’t end with uncertainty. He doesn’t say this is the end. He says there will be a harvest. There will come a day when God will make things all right. Justice will finally prevail. Every tear will be wiped away. Every wrong will be corrected. Every act of faithfulness will be remembered. Until then, we live with hope. Not because evil wins, but because Christ already has. The cross looked like defeat. The empty tomb declared victory. The resurrection reminds us that God’s final word is never death. It is always life.

    Here’s my conclusion: We live in a field where wheat and weeds grow together. That is our life. There will always be disappointments. There will always be struggles. There will always be people who hurt us, yet there will always be grace. There will always be forgiveness, and there will always be an opportunity for new life. So let us leave the judging to God when it comes to those things, and let us trust His timing in those matters, and let us keep growing like good wheat. Let us keep bearing fruits so that others may know him, and let us remember that the farmer who planted the good seeds is still watching over his fields, caring for every stalk of wheat, and preparing for the day when the harvest is complete. Until that day, may we remain faithful, rooted in Christ, growing in love, and shining with hope for other people to see. Amen? Amen.

    Let us pray. Gracious and loving God, thank you for your patience with us. We confess that we often want quick answers and swift justice, yet you teach us to trust your wisdom and your timing. Help us to grow as faithful disciples, rooted in your love and bearing fruit of kindness, mercy, and compassion. Give us hearts that are slow to judge and eager to forgive. Strengthen us to live with hope as we await the day when Christ will make all things anew. Until that glorious harvest, keep us faithful in your service. Through Jesus Christ, our Lord, we pray. Amen. Amen.

    One of the hardest things for Christians to understand is why evil seems to exist along goodness. We ask questions like, why do bad things happen to good people? Why do dishonest people seem to prosper? And why doesn’t God just remove evil from the world? These aren’t new questions; as a matter of fact, Jesus’s disciples were asking these same questions. So Jesus tells them a story: a farmer had carefully planted good wheat in his field. Everything was done right, just like he had said—the seed is good, the soil was ready, and the future looks promising. But while everyone was asleep, an enemy secretly comes into the field and plants weeds among the wheat. When the plants began to grow, the servants noticed a problem. “All right? So, master,” they asked, “did you sow good seeds? Where did these weeds come enough from?” The farmer answered simply, “The enemy has done this.”

    Then comes this surprising part, right? The workers immediately offer to pull up the weeds, but the farmer says, “No, don’t do it.” Why? Why would he say that? Because the roots of the weeds and the wheat had become intertwined. Pulling the weeds now would pull out the wheat as well. So instead, he says, let both grow together until the harvest is ready. That isn’t how we want a story to end, is it? Nah. We wanted immediate justice. That evil person should be paying for this, right? Or we want the wrongs corrected today—justice right now. We want evil to be removed right now. But Jesus says God’s timing is different than ours.

    The world Jesus describes in today’s parable is remarkably like ours, isn’t it? Think about it for a minute. There’s beauty, there’s kindness, there’s faithful people serving everywhere, every day. Yet alongside them is violence, hatred, greed, dishonesty, selfishness. Sometimes those weeds grow very close to us, don’t they? Sometimes they’re in our workplaces. Sometimes they’re in our communities. Sometimes they’re even in our own families. And if we’re honest with ourselves, sometimes those weeds grow in our own lives. Martin Luther once said that believers are simultaneously saints and sinners. God has planted grace within us, but we continue to $struggle with temptation and sin. Every day, we find ourselves asking forgiveness for things that we’ve said or things that we’ve done or things that we’ve just failed to do. This parable isn’t only about looking out at our world; it’s also about looking inward, inside us.

    The servants wanted to solve the problem. They wanted to solve it immediately. They thought that they knew exactly what needed to be done to remove those weeds, right? But the farmer knew something that they didn’t. You see, human beings aren’t always very good judges. We kind of get emotional sometimes and let things get in the way of making good judgments. How often have we judged somebody too quickly? How often have we written somebody off just because they make one mistake? How often have we assumed that someone could never change? Yet throughout Scripture, we see God transforming people no one ever expected: Moses—Moses was a murderer; Paul—Paul persecuted Christians; David—David committed adultery; Peter—Peter denied Jesus. Yet God wasn’t finished with them. Had someone pulled the weeds out back then, the world would have never been able to witness what God was doing through these lives.

    God sees possibilities that we cannot see. Perhaps the greatest lesson in today’s gospel is God’s patience. God could force judgment today if he wanted to. Instead, he offers another day, another sunrise, another opportunity for repentance, another chance to receive his grace. Every day we wake up is evidence of God’s mercy. Peter writes, “The Lord is patient with you, not wanting any to perish, but everyone to come to repentance.” What patience God has shown us, each and every one of us. There are moments in our lives when we wander far from God—moments when we’ve doubted the existence, moments when we’ve failed to be obedient. Yet God never stopped calling us back. He says, “Come on.” His arms are always open, ready to receive us. His mercy kept reaching towards us. Come back. That same mercy is extended to everyone: even addicts, even homeless, even good people who are doing everything right.

    But notice something important. That wheat doesn’t spend its time worrying about the weeds, does it? No. It just simply keeps growing and growing and growing until it’s ready, right? So what if Christians spent less energy condemning darkness and more energy shining Christ’s light? What happens in a dark room when you turn on the lights? The darkness goes away, doesn’t it? Yeah. Imagine churches known for compassion instead of criticism. Imagine believers recognized for forgiveness rather than judgment. Imagine communities where people see Jesus because they experience his love through us. That’s what healthy wheat does. It grows. It bears fruit and it nourishes others.

    Years ago, a church welcomed a man who had lived a difficult life. He had struggled with addictions, spent time in jail, carried with him some deep regrets. Some people wondered if he really belonged there. But one older member simply welcomed him every Sunday. She remembered his name. She saved him a seat, prayed for him faithfully. She never rushed or tried to force change. She just simply reflected Christ’s love. Months turned into years. Slowly, his life began to change. Eventually, he found some steady work, repaired relationships that had been broken with his family, and eventually, he began helping others who were facing the same struggles that he had gone through. If people had judged only by what they first saw, they might have missed what God was growing. Patient love becomes the soil where new life takes root. Let me say it again: patient love becomes the soil where new life takes root. God’s grace is often at work slowly, but it works deeply.

    Now, Jesus doesn’t end with uncertainty. He doesn’t say this is the end. He says there will be a harvest. There will come a day when God will make things all right. Justice will finally prevail. Every tear will be wiped away. Every wrong will be corrected. Every act of faithfulness will be remembered. Until then, we live with hope. Not because evil wins, but because Christ already has. The cross looked like defeat. The empty tomb declared victory. The resurrection reminds us that God’s final word is never death. It is always life.

    Here’s my conclusion: We live in a field where wheat and weeds grow together. That is our life. There will always be disappointments. There will always be struggles. There will always be people who hurt us, yet there will always be grace. There will always be forgiveness, and there will always be an opportunity for new life. So let us leave the judging to God when it comes to those things, and let us trust His timing in those matters, and let us keep growing like good wheat. Let us keep bearing fruits so that others may know him, and let us remember that the farmer who planted the good seeds is still watching over his fields, caring for every stalk of wheat, and preparing for the day when the harvest is complete. Until that day, may we remain faithful, rooted in Christ, growing in love, and shining with hope for other people to see. Amen? Amen.

    Let us pray. Gracious and loving God, thank you for your patience with us. We confess that we often want quick answers and swift justice, yet you teach us to trust your wisdom and your timing. Help us to grow as faithful disciples, rooted in your love and bearing fruit of kindness, mercy, and compassion. Give us hearts that are slow to judge and eager to forgive. Strengthen us to live with hope as we await the day when Christ will make all things anew. Until that glorious harvest, keep us faithful in your service. Through Jesus Christ, our Lord, we pray. Amen. Amen.

  • Announcements 7-19-2026

    Blessing Bags Donations:

    • Event: Collecting small food items and disposable razors
    • Location: Fairhaven UMC
    • Details: Needed items include granola bars, crackers and disposable razors. Other hygiene products are fully stocked.

    Food Pantry Donations:

    • Event: Collecting food for the pantry
    • Location: Fairhaven UMC
    • Details: $25 Aldi gift cards are available if you are willing to shop for the pantry.

    Free Church T-Shirts:

    • Event: Giving away Fairhaven Church t-shirts
    • Location: Fairhaven UMC
    • Details: Sizes L, XL, and XXL available. They run small but are free to a good home.

    Living Stones Community Dinner:

    • Event: Feeding the community
    • Location: Fairhaven UMC
    • Time: Sunday, July 26, 2026, at 4:30 PM
    • Details: Held the last Sunday of the month. Talk to Joe or Charlie to get involved or Dylan and Stormie.

    Baby Celebration for Dylan and Stormie:

    • Event: Celebrating the upcoming birth of Dylan and Stormie’s baby
    • Location: Fairhaven UMC
    • Time: Sunday, August 2, 2026, at 2:00 PM
    • Details: Please RSVP by Monday, July 20, 2026.

    Back to School Dollar Sale:

    • Event: Annual mission project offering clothing, shoes, and school items for $1-$2
    • Location: Hilltop UMC
    • Time: Saturday, August 8, 2026, at 9:00 AM
    • Details: Contact Louie Ann Strong’s mother for more information.

  • Summary

    In this week’s service, Rev Dylan Parson draws a poignant parallel between the intensive, careful labor required to cultivate a lawn at his parsonage and the spiritual discipline needed to grow in faith. Reflecting on the human instinct to be risk-averse with our resources—such as time, energy, or church budgets—he examines the Parable of the Sower, noting that the sower’s seemingly wasteful scattering of seed defies our desire for predictable, guaranteed returns. Using the biblical example of Esau, who traded his long-term inheritance for a momentary bowl of soup, Rev Parson warns against the “rocky soil” of a shallow faith that reacts only to immediate comforts and lacks deep, resilient roots.

    Ultimately, Rev Parson encourages the congregation to embrace a more “reckless” approach to ministry, modeled after the sower who throws seed without knowing where it will land. While acknowledging that much of our work in planting the Gospel may appear unsuccessful by human standards, he emphasizes that the Kingdom of God operates through a slow, divine process of cultivation. He concludes with a call to trust in God’s providence, urging believers to pour out the love of Jesus into the world with wild hope, trusting that God will bring an abundant and unexpected harvest far beyond our own calculations.

    In the seven-some years since we moved into Hilltops Parable, one of our greatest battles has been to have a lawn. And I constantly talk about how I could kick myself for never having taken before and after pictures of things that we’ve done in that parsonage backyard because I know in my head that we’ve come a long way from where it was. They have these roses of Sharon that grow along the chain link fence on the side of the backyard that used to arch the whole way over the backyard. The whole back two thirds was in shade, just rocky ground because it was all shaded out. We’ve got those roses of Sharons corralled now. Stormy always picks the most inconvenient time and decides that we’re going to go cut them and we have to bag up seven bags of Rose’s Sharon. So we go do that. But it’s worked.

    And up towards the house, it’s been an even more difficult fight to keep the grass between heavy dog traffic. You know, they shoot out the door right there into the backyard. And there’s this rushing flow whenever it rains of what clearly used to be a spring, just like pretty much a shallow creek bed down the middle of the backyard. And so the front third of the yard has alternated historically between being a mud pit and a dust bowl. Hard to grow grass there. But we’ve managed to get that largely under control too. We have something like a French strain now, a really half-baked French strain. We put a strip of river rock down that breaks the runoff flow. It slows things down, stops the erosion from being as and bad.

    But one of the most effective things we’ve done to get a yard is reseed it. When the landscaping was finished at the front of the church last summer, we snagged a little bit of that leftover grass seed to give it a try in our own yard. And I can’t remember what this blend was. I wish I could. It was like Black Magic or something, maybe. But the bag said that it was a fancy, high-traffic, drought-tolerant blend developed by some university agricultural extension service. So this was good stuff. You know, not that quick cover that only lasts for a season but patches over bigger problems. Not the bottom-shelf Kentucky bluegrass that just dries out here. And it’s been a little over a year now, and this seed has largely worked. We’ve got a pretty heavy green carpet now in our backyard.

    Hilltop’s front lawn looks great even when we go a bell weeks without rain. That grass seed blend, though, again, the first we’ve really gotten to take off, it’s like 80 bucks for a two-pound bag, I’m told. Now, two pounds of grass seed, that’s a lot of individual grass seeds, for sure. But it’s not that many square feet when you get down to it. So before we planted it in our yard, and July is not a great time to do this to begin with, we made sure to lay down bags of mushroom compost in key places. We took a metal rake to dig it in as much as we could to loosen the soil. And once it was down, we put down this new grass fertilizer. And we fenced off the parts of the yard that we most wanted to grow to keep the dogs off it for a couple weeks. And we watered it every day. Remember that last summer, this was crucial because it was hot and it was dry. I had every intention of making this work the first time because all of this was very inconvenient. And most importantly, because I didn’t want to go buy another $80 bag of grass seed to try again. Very high stakes.

    And it seems to me that taking care in this way is what a good sower, a good farmer is supposed to do. And now you’ll note that as far as crops go, grass is a pretty useless crop. It doesn’t provide anything for us except for a nice carpet to walk on, to sit on, to look at. You like those nice freshly mowed lines. Maybe that’s just the man thing. I don’t know. But if I had planted wheat or corn that I was relying on as my and my primary source of food, I’d have been even more careful before and after I sowed the seeds to make sure I got enough of a crop for my family to survive. So Jesus listeners, when they’re hearing this parable of these seeds, these aren’t casual gardeners growing a couple zucchini plants, maybe some cherry tomatoes. They did not have grass lawns. That wasn’t invented yet. These are subsistence farmers. They eat what they grow or they die.

    And so when Jesus is describing in this parable this sower, he’s describing a very bad farmer. If an actual farmer were to do their job like the one in this parable, they would likely come out of the harvest season bankrupt, and if it were back in Jesus’ day, they’d potentially come out of the winter dead. And those who would have originally heard Jesus’ parable, they understood this perfectly well. And it probably surprised them a lot that this doesn’t really seem to be a concern of Jesus’ in the story. This farmer being wasteful, being bad at his job, that doesn’t really seem to be the point of the story at all. They would have known that this farmer is throwing away valuable seed at random to see what takes, even in places that make no sense. You know, you cultivate a field. You don’t spread your corn on the driveway, right?

    And these farmers would have been very puzzled because they, like us, prefer to live their lives in a risk-averse way. We’re not going to dump valuable resources onto rocky ground or into the thorns. Whenever we look at our resources, whether it’s an $80 bag of grass seed, whether it’s our church budget, whether it’s the very limited energy each of us has, we try to be very careful with how we invest them. We want guaranteed returns, visible victories along the way, predictable growth. It doesn’t have to be enormous, but it should be predictable and reliable.

    But at the same time, we have dueling impulses within us. Because even as we want that stuff, we’re also really notoriously bad at calculating long-term growth and risk. You know, especially when we get desperate or tired or anxious, we stop thinking well about the $future. And whenever we’re under pressure, we stop being conservative and risk-averse and start looking for instant wins, instant gratification. And we see that in our Old Testament reading today with Esau. Esau comes in from this hunting expedition, probably been out a day or so. He’s hungry. His legs are wobbling. He’s about to drop over unless he gets something to eat. He’s desperately hungry.

    And I don’t know about you, maybe this is an insulin problem I need to get looked at, but I experience this pretty frequently. A few months ago, I was in Costco having skipped lunch, walking around Costco with Stormy and I got this overwhelming feeling that if I did not get to the food court right now and get a smoothie, I was going to black out and crack my skull on the rotisserie chicken rack. And it is very scary whenever you feel hunger overtake you like that. You want to deal with it immediately. It’s this ultimate, immediate, acute, short-term crisis, and it’s one that Esau is having. Esau says to himself, I need to eat, and I need to eat right now. And his brother Jacob, who we just heard his backstory, he’s been a schemer, he’s been an opportunist from before he was born. Jacob sees his moment and he offers his brother Esau a single bowl of red lentil stew. And he’ll give that to Esau on credit. You don’t got to worry about paying me right now for that. He will just owe Jacob his entire inheritance when his father dies. Worry about it later.

    And Esau is completely caught up in the physical discomfort that he’s in. Again, he’s going to drop over. And he says, look, I’m going to die right now if I don’t eat. So what good is this inheritance to me? You got it. And he sells his entire future, not just his, but his kids, his legacy. He sells his place in God’s covenant. You know, he was the firstborn. He should have been the father of God’s people. He sells all of that for a bowl of soup. And it’s easy for us to look at Esau and wonder, how could you be so stupid? Although I think we need to give him some grace and maybe he thinks his brother was kidding because that’s a crazy thing to do.

    But Esau here is the embodiment of what Jesus calls this rocky soil. And Jesus explains in his parable that some seeds that are scattered fall on rocky ground. There’s only a thin layer of topsoil. And these seeds actually start off growing incredibly fast, faster than any others. The soil is loose. It’s warm. It gets the morning sunlight, easy for water to get into. And at first glance, it looks like it’s a massive success just in the short term here. Like this harvest is going to be huge. Look at this crop shoot up in the rocks. But the moment there’s a hot summer’s day and a week without rain, these seedlings wither and die because they have an no deep roots to sustain them. There’s no anchor. There’s no drawing of nutrition from deep ground.

    And this is Esau. Esau is a simple guy. We see that throughout the narrative here in Genesis. He’s a simple guy. He’s not a schemer. He’s not a thinker. He likes going hunting. Now, this is not a problem, but for him, again, it means that he lacks the deep roots of commitment and faith that would secure his footing in challenging moments. And instead, he is ruled by the immediate climate of whatever is around him. Whatever’s happening, he responds to it without being careful. And so the moment he experiences that first hot summer day with the sun beating down like those seedlings, he gets some hunger, he feels physical discomfort, he’s worried about what’s about to happen, his roots reveal just how shallow they are. And he chooses this quick fix, this soup that’s going to nourish him in the moment over this long-term promise of stability.

    And if we’re honest with ourselves, the rocky soil is a warning to each of us. The easiest soil of any of these, I think, for us in the church to be is to be that rocky soil, to be the seedling who starts out devoted to Jesus, devoted to the $church for a time. We love it here. We’re very excited. We’ve seen new things where what is this place like? What’s Jesus like? All this. We see just great things happening within and around us. But as time goes on in the church and in our faith, we lose interest a little bit. We lose commitment a little bit. The thrill of newness wears off and we hit a moment of disillusionment or conflict and then it’s over.

    But this is a lifelong thing. We can’t be that way. And what we also see in this parable is that the painful reality is that proclaiming the good news, doing the work of the church of a Christian in the world, like planting seeds, is not usually going to work by our metrics. We will not have every seed sprout. In this parable, keep in mind that this sower has a failure three quarters of the time. We will not even have most of our seeds sprout. Most places that we plant will be totally unsuccessful in getting the results that we’re hoping for. And maybe our biggest disappointments are going to be the moments when we’re expecting some return on our efforts, and it appears to show up, these little seedlings, but then it’s in the rocks and it wilts in the sun.

    Jesus shows us in this parable that we can’t force a solution. We can’t force growth. We can’t force seeds to take in places that they’re just not gonna. Because the kingdom of God just doesn’t work like that. Our role is to live our lives both as the soil, and that’s how parables work, right? You’re multiple things, multiple levels in the parable. But our role is to live our lives planting the seeds of the gospel, being fertile soil, spreading the love of Jesus around us, and doing our $our best to set up the body of Christ, the church for a successful harvest. And this requires us not to get disproportionately caught up in the short term, not to get nearsighted in our actions. We’re not supposed to get stingy with the seeds, but we’re also not supposed to think short term. Because if we’re doing what we’re supposed to do, and that’s not reflecting in our budget, in the number of people in the pews, in our own spiritual growth in this moment, that’s not inherently a marker of failure. If indeed we are committed to keep doing what we’re supposed to do, an enormous harvest, we see this at the end of the parable, an enormous harvest might be on the horizon in those places that are taking very slowly. Whether we personally get to see it or not.

    This is one of the hardest things, whether we personally get to see it or not. And on the flip side of that, these other types of soil, if we make short-sighted decisions to achieve quick results by force, that’s like planting on thin, rocky soil and getting excited when the seedlings shoot up. They’re only going to last a short time. Churches, disciples of Christ, have to be cultivated over time. This is the only way that plants can grow to maturity that are hardened, that are resilient against the heat. Those of you who do garden and do it from seed, more labor intensive than how I usually do, know that whenever you get some tomato plants, you’ve got $got to put them outside in the early spring to harden off the weak ones, which really means kind of kill the weak ones and strengthen the ones that are going to last. So there’s a process over time that involves a lot of failure.

    And the coming of the kingdom of God is like this long, slow process that requires hope and expectation whenever the evidence might not be visible yet. The seeds that we plant might be starting by digging down roots long before a shoot comes up. Building the church, awaiting the fullness of the kingdom. These things are a lot like farming. It doesn’t take a lot of reading in the Gospels to realize that Jesus talks like that a lot. Because like farming, it’s God who decides what is going to happen, what’s going to grow. God brings the harvest. You and I don’t grow seeds. We just plant seeds and try to make the best environment for them.

    And again, because the harvest belongs to God, because it’s brought by God, we don’t have to be stingy or calculated or careful with the seeds that we throw around. Think about how different that is, again, from our instincts. As I can testify about my backyard, it is hard enough to get seeds to grow on decent, prepared, fertilized, watered soil, and good seed is expensive. We hoard what’s precious to us, what’s valuable, because we’re afraid to waste it. We’re afraid that if we get rid of it, we’ll lose it, that we’ll end up behind.

    But I think this is an important part of the parable, the part that Jesus doesn’t say when he doesn’t condemn this bad farmer. He doesn’t say he’s a bad farmer. We don’t call this the parable of the bad sower. It’s expected that the farmer should be reckless with his seeds. It’s not a problem. It’s how he’s supposed to be. Despite what appears to be this tremendous waste, the harvest the farmer receives in the parable is a huge one. So are you really wasting seeds if what you get is a 100 to 1 harvest? Whatever he might have hoped for, he gets way more beyond his wildest dreams. I don’t know much about how you grow grain, but every commentary I read about this says that a 100 to 1, a 60 to 1, a 30 to 1 return is absurd. So what he harvests is not a normal yield. It’s not even a good year. It’s a crazy good harvest. This farmer would have more grain than he ever knew what to do with.

    And suddenly scattering those seeds all over the place isn’t going to feel so wasteful. He sowed with this wild hope and he reaped a harvest that only God could produce for him. This is what the kingdom of God is like. This is how we are called to live. Foolishly, recklessly pouring out the love of Jesus into the world and trusting that God’s going to do something with it. That God will grow something with what we scatter. We do our part and God brings the harvest. In the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit.