Fairhaven Sermon 1-19-2025
Summary
In this week’s service, led by Pastor Rev. Dylan Parson at Fairhaven United Methodist Church, the congregation was invited to reflect on themes of grace and community. Rev. Parson emphasized the importance of living out our faith through acts of kindness and compassion, drawing attention to recent community outreach efforts spearheaded by the church. He highlighted stories of individuals and groups who have dedicated their time to supporting local shelters and food banks, underscoring the church’s commitment to embodying Christ's love in tangible ways. Rev. Parson encouraged everyone to participate in these initiatives, reminding the congregation that small acts of service can lead to profound impacts within our community and align us more closely with God's will.
Additionally, Rev. Parson delved into the biblical account of the Good Samaritan as an illustration of unconditional love and neighborly kindness. He explored how this parable challenges believers to cross societal boundaries and extend help beyond familiar circles, urging the congregation to be mindful of their biases and preconceptions. Through this reflection, Rev. Parson stressed the transformative power of grace—both in receiving it and extending it to others—and how this principle acts as a cornerstone for building a more inclusive and compassionate community. He concluded with an inspirational call to action, inviting everyone to live deliberately as vessels of grace in a world in need.
Transcript
Some of you, I know, have a Presbyterian background, at least two of you. Even if you don't share this background, I'm sure you've heard the joking label that Presbyterians and other Reformed Christians receive: they're called the "frozen chosen." This label is a doctrinal joke that highlights two aspects: first, Presbyterians' belief in predestination—the idea that God chooses who will be saved. Second, it suggests a somewhat "stuffy and cold" atmosphere rather than being warm and embracing.
I don't know if this stereotype is fair. Most Presbyterians I've met have been friendly, not overly affectionate perhaps, but generally welcoming. Most of my family is Presbyterian, which explains a lot about my experiences. Despite the stereotype's persistence through generations, there's an implication that Christians are expected to act differently—joyful and warm-hearted. It's a fair expectation to feel welcomed and loved when entering any church or meeting Christians.
However, despite every church claiming to be warm and friendly, many are not universally welcoming. Insiders have a different experience than outsiders. How many visitors have been asked to leave someone's pew and were never welcomed back? Many attempt to attend services only to be ignored, never having a single interaction. I recall attending a church in college for two years without being acknowledged, except by one elderly woman who sat with me every week. In a college town, my plight wasn't unique, but I was one of the few who persisted.
Involvement in ministry or outreach can be equally challenging. Newcomers are sometimes met with indifference or hostility, making it difficult to integrate and contribute. This often happens easily and frequently, highlighting the importance of being proactive in our approach to hospitality, reflecting Jesus’ example.
In October 2022, Pope Francis spoke at a seminar on sainthood. He emphasized that holiness is about realizing we are loved by God, which inspires immense joy and gratitude. This divine gift allows us to face challenges with grace and assurance. Without this joy, faith can become oppressive. The Pope humorously remarked that saints are not "vinegar faces" but individuals with joyful hearts open to hope.
Isaiah's reading reinforces this message: "You will be a splendid garland in the Lord’s hand, a royal turban in the palm of God's hand." God delights in us, holding us as a crown. Despite times of sadness or seriousness, true Christian character cannot be frozen or unpleasant. The essence is love and joy.
A common critique of contemporary Christian music, often described as "Jesus is my boyfriend," can be uncomfortable. While this theme may feel overly intimate or personal, it parallels Isaiah's depiction of God’s people as a beautiful bride. This language challenges the typical formal relationship many feel comfortable with, inviting deeper contemplation of God's passionate love.
The wedding at Cana illustrates this kind of divine joy. Jesus’ first miracle, turning water into the finest wine at a wedding banquet, underscores a celebration of love and hospitality. He performed this miracle not out of obligation but out of affection for Mary, the couple, and the guests. This act symbolizes God's desire to bring joy and abundance into our lives.
Pope Francis again highlights this theme, noting that wine is the essence of celebration. God provides not merely what we need but abundantly more, delighting in us and celebrating with us. Let's invite the warmth of Jesus' love into our hearts, transforming any chilliness with his finest affection, in the name of the Father, and the Son, and the Holy Spirit. Amen.
