Fairhaven UMC

United Methodist Church

Author: Brian

  • Summary In this week’s service, Pastor Steven McIlvaine  explored the complex and often difficult topic of forgiveness. Discussing Peter’s question in the Gospel, he noted that Jesus’ instruction to forgive “seventy times seven” serves as a teaching that forgiveness is not about keeping score. Through the parable of the servant who was shown immense mercy yet refused to show it to others, Rev. Mclaine emphasized that because God extends incredible grace to us despite our shortcomings, we are called to extend that same mercy to those around us.  Pastor McIlvaine  also addressed the practical emotional toll of unforgiveness through the analogy of a backpack filled with heavy rocks. He explained that while we carry the weight of these past hurts, the people who caused them often do not, meaning our unforgiveness only burdens ourselves. He encouraged the congregation to surrender these “rocks” to God—a process that may require doing so repeatedly—noting that forgiveness is an act of great strength that allows us to release our anger and create space for God to create a new future.

  • Summary In this week’s service, Rev. Dylan Parson explores the fundamental differences between pursuing justice through impunity or retribution versus the biblical model of reconciliation found in Matthew 18. Drawing from a personal anecdote regarding the chaotic living conditions of a college dormitory and an ineffective university “restorative justice” circle, the sermon illustrates how both…

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  • Summary In this week’s service, Pastor Steven McIlvaine  explored the challenging instructions found in Romans 12:9-21, contrasting comforting scriptures with the practical, often difficult, call to live out a genuine Christian faith. He emphasized that true love is not merely verbal, but is demonstrated through active patience, forgiveness, and the essential ministry of being present…

  • Summary In this week’s service, Rev. Dylan Parson explores the tension between a quiet, conforming faith and the radical, disruptive nature of true scriptural Christianity. Drawing from the historical roots of Methodism—which began as a movement of “troublemakers” who challenged social injustice—the sermon contrasts a polite, private relationship with God against the reality of being…