Fairhaven UMC

United Methodist Church

  • audio-thumbnail

    Fairhaven Sermon 3 2 2025
    0:00

    /1085.808

    Summary

    In this week’s service, Pastor Rev. Dylan Parson explored the profound connection between humanity’s innate desire for elevated vantage points and spiritual encounters with God atop mountains. Drawing from personal experiences and biblical narratives, including the transfiguration of Jesus on a mountaintop as described in Luke, Rev. Parson emphasized how these sacred sites offer moments of divine clarity and transformation. However, he also highlighted the challenge of carrying that transformative power into everyday life, where darkness and struggles often prevail.

    The sermon delved into the importance of recognizing God’s presence not just during mystical mountain encounters but also in the mundane and difficult aspects of daily living. Rev. Parson urged the congregation to internalize these mountaintop experiences as essential fuel for their faith journey, enabling them to face life’s challenges with a deeper understanding of God’s enduring power and grace. He concluded by reinforcing the call to listen to Jesus, both in moments of awe and amidst the trials of life, emphasizing that true salvation and divine greatness are most evident when we engage actively with the world around us.

    Transcript

    So I think there is something like deep in my genes that makes me want to just be on top of a hill, looking outward. Maybe it’s some kind of primal animal instinct. I want to be able to spot wolves or a tiger approaching from as much of a distance as possible. But I just feel really anxious.

    In a valley at the bottom of a mountain, unable to see out far around me. There’s just something that I find so disconcerting about, for example, you drive out in the middle of Pennsylvania in fall or winter. You wind along the flatlands between the ridges, you know, and you pass these farms and these fields that are already in the twilight at like 1pm. I hate that.

    I can’t imagine living in that environment. My grandmother lived up on top of a small hill in Portersville in Butler County. She had a line of tall pines that were lined up in front of the house on that hill. And every spring, she would have my uncle trim those trees.

    She’d have him remove all the branches up 10 feet or so to ensure that she had a clean line of sight to the road, beyond that, including to her arch enemies who lived on the opposite slope. She wanted to be able to see. That’s what she always said. I want to be able to see.

    And I completely get that now. I want to be able to see, and I cannot stand when that’s not possible. Mountaintops on the other hand, on like the bottom of a hill, are an almost mystical kind of place for me every time I’m on one. And that’s obviously not just me.

    That’s like, that’s a human thing. Throughout scripture, God is worshipped and encountered on mountaintops. We heard about two of them in our scripture readings today. You have Mount Sinai, you have Mount Carmel where Elijah calls the power of God down.

    You have Mount Zion, also known as Jerusalem. One of the first people to try to climb Mount Everest, named George Mallory, was memorably asked why he wanted to climb the mountain. And his response was famously, Because it’s there. They call out to us somehow.

    I myself have had so-called mountaintop experiences. A sunset on a ridge in Guatemala probably marked the moment that I felt God called me into ministry. That’s a long story for some other time. But that was a mountaintop experience.

    Four years or so after that, probably almost exactly, I found myself having reached the summit of Snake Mountain, a piece of the border between North Carolina and Tennessee, shortly before another sunset, completely by myself. Snake Mountain is located maybe a mile past a popular state park in North Carolina, Elk Knob. Elk Knob has this well-kept gravel path to the top. It’s complete with a nice observation deck up there, a good wooden deck.

    There’s a good parking lot at the bottom. There’s no parking lot or gravel path on Snake Mountain. It’s almost entirely someone’s privately owned land that they choose to leave open to hikers. The trail entrance is tucked at the end of a cow pasture on the road up to Tennessee.

    And you have to know what you’re looking for if you’re going there. There’s not some big state park sign or something. And so I parked my car at about two or three in the afternoon. I spontaneously had decided to give the hike a try after someone at church had recommended it.

    And then I saw no one for hours. I passed one couple coming out as I began to climb, and then I saw nobody else on the whole mountain. I pushed it a little bit too hard for the first half. I almost passed out about a third of the way up the mountain in the darkest, deepest part of the forest by myself, which would have ruined the day.

    But I did end up just lying flat on the path and got up and made it the rest of the way. And I made it in about two hours or so. And the woods at the top of the mountain opened up to this wide grassland as I got above the tree line. And I walked in the sun towards the rock faces at the very top.

    It was a pointed, like, rocky mountain at the top. And as I made it to the base of these rocks that crowned the mountain, I found myself standing in this thicket of blueberry bushes that encircled almost the entire peak. And I just, I was surprised. I was delighted at that.

    I picked and I ate more blueberries than I could count. And there was just such a sense of wonder in that for me. I made it all this way and not only got this incredible view, this accomplishment, but was also met with an unexpected snack. It was like, it reminded me of manna, you know? God had just given something.

    And I scaled the rock all the way up to the top. I found the summit marker, you know, those little copper things that the USGS nails in. And then I sat for quite some time. I looked in every direction.

    And there’s nothing quite like that feeling of having made it to the top of a mountain, whether that’s Mount Everest or a mountain like this one that’s like a fifth of that height max. And then after a long while, I noticed the sky was starting to get that evening gold to it. It’s going to get dark. I made my way down.

    And when I’d just about gotten to where I almost passed out a few hours earlier, now really dim amidst the trees, I heard loud and clear a pack of coyotes yipping and howling and very obviously getting closer. I found myself basically running that last third of the journey down the mountain, burning through all those mountain blueberry calories. I made it back to the car, got home before dark. And that sense of real victory and experience that I still feel about that day, I still carry it with me.

    That was a big, important achievement. Not really, but it felt like it. In Celtic societies, Ireland, Scotland, Northern France, there’s this traditional notion of thin places. If you’ve ever heard that before.

    And that’s a geographical location where the barrier between earth and heaven, the everyday and the supernatural, seems to be almost transparent. You’re just closer to it. And almost every mountaintop, I think, is one of those. We feel in those places like we’re closer to God.

    Not just because we’re higher up, obviously, but there’s something spiritually about it. And so it’s no surprise that in today’s gospel reading from Luke, what’s known as the transfiguration happens at the top of a mountain, as Jesus is transformed before the eyes of three of his closest disciples. And we think about this as a moment where Jesus just starts to glow and all his clothes turn white or something like that. But the way that it’s expressed in Luke, this word for transfiguration, is the same word that is used for a caterpillar that goes into a cocoon and comes out a butterfly.

    It’s a complete transformation. So the disciples with Jesus have gone seeking the face of God at the top of that mountain. Luke, more than all the other gospel writers, draws our attention to that, to why they’re going up there. Luke, unlike Matthew and Mark, points out that the four men are going up there specifically to pray.

    That’s why they’re going. It’s not Jesus taking them on a mysterious trip. They’re going to pray. All of them, Jesus included, are tapping into this notion that there are places where God can be met in a special way.

    And so together they climb this peak. We don’t know which mountain it is. This unnamed peak. What they’re not expecting is just how powerful and head-on this vision, this approach to God is going to be.

    As he kneels in prayer, Jesus’ face is transformed. His clothes flash like lightning, Luke says. And suddenly he’s with two men who are so visibly holy that they can only be Moses and Elijah. They, like Jesus, are clothed in heavenly splendor.

    And we’re not given any details about what they talk about. But they talk to Jesus about his coming departure from Jerusalem. The literal translation for departure there is Exodus, which I think is really interesting. Jesus is leading in Exodus.

    And so it’s funny. Luke tells us that Peter and James and John are about to doze off when all of this happens. Though they manage to stay awake, Luke says, to see it happen. But it’s as if, despite their mountaintop destination and Peter’s very recent declaration that Jesus is the Messiah, that’s the story that happens right before this.

    Peter’s the first one to say it. Jesus, I believe that you are the Messiah. Even though that just happened, even though they’re going to the top of the mountain to seek God, it doesn’t seem like they’re really expecting God to show up if they’re falling asleep. It’s kind of relatable, I think.

    How often do you and I really expect God to show up? Even right here. Even whenever we affirm in a couple minutes that the bread and the wine are Christ’s body and blood, right here. When do we expect it? But heaven rips through into our world right before their eyes. And they have no idea what to do.

    They went up there to seek God. Here he is. What now? They have no idea. James and John presumably just stand there with their jaws on the ground.

    And Peter, who’s always desperate to do something, which you’ve got to admire, proposes constructing three shrines at the top of the mountain to memorialize the moment. One for Moses, one for Elijah, one for Jesus. Memorialize this moment. Build something here to show what happened.

    And we can assume that Jesus shakes his head and the disciples are immediately engulfed in this cloud of the Lord’s presence that once surrounded Moses on Sinai as he spoke to God. Whenever God is there, there’s this tangible kind of atmospheric change. And they’re overtaken with awe. Whatever Peter was saying, he’s not saying anything anymore.

    And at that moment, we see what is called a theophany. This is one of the theophanies of the Bible. And a theophany just means a direct appearance of God to human beings. And God speaks to them and says, This is my son, my chosen one.

    Listen to him. And with that, that’s the finale, everything returns to the way it was moments before as they stand on the heights of that quiet mountain. They went up to pray and they have received the answer to their prayer, regardless of what they asked for, they got an answer. This is my son, the chosen one, the Father says to them.

    Listen to him. That’s it. And what comes next, and I think this is fair to say, is evidence that this theophany failed to catch. The very next day, down from the mountain, Jesus and his disciples meet a large crowd as they often do.

    They’re out on the road and people find them, they’ve heard that Jesus is a healer, is a teacher. And in that crowd, another father, interesting, right, introduces his son, who is possessed by an unclean spirit that torments him. And here the disciples, who have just been on the mountain heights, seen the face of God, encounter the face of the demonic, of darkness. But it seems like they have completely lost touch with what they witnessed and heard on the mountaintop.

    They have been entirely unable, the guy has been begging them before he comes to Jesus, the disciples have been entirely unable to do anything about this demon, even though their faces, if Moses’ example holds, they’re probably still literally glowing from having encountered the power of God. That is how real God is to them right now. And yet, when the rubber hits the road, they don’t listen to him. They don’t go out and minister in his power, the power that they have just seen.

    They’re helpless, or at least they think they’re helpless, which makes them helpless. But the God that they met up there in the cloud is also the God who ends up looking that demon in the eye and cast it out. And so Jesus heals the boy himself because the disciples didn’t know they could. The God who is high and lifted up, the God on the mountaintop in the cloud is also the God who’s down in the dirt with the poor, the oppressed, those stricken by demons.

    That’s always been true. It’s still true. Listen to him and take his power seriously, the Father says. Whatever so-called mountaintop experiences we’ve had with God, whether on a literal mountaintop, in a pew, alone on your couch, we have to treasure those things, and not just in the moment.

    We have to carry them down the mountain with us, cornerstones of our faith, as fuel for the journey into the dark valleys that we’ll all walk into. That’s why they’re given to us. That sweetness, that great gift of God that nourishes our souls on top of the mountain is what keeps us energized and carrying on when the coyotes come on the descent. And this is what Lent’s supposed to be about, by the way.

    Lent is practice. Lent’s conditioning for the spiritual trials that we face in the world. Lent is an annual journey when we, disciples of Jesus, like James and Peter and John, symbolically join him on his descent from the mountain. This is the high point of the book.

    As we go into Luke, it is from the transfiguration on that he turns his face towards Jerusalem, towards the cross, towards the suffering and the death that he faced for us and with us. This is the fuel for what is to come. And so our constant challenge of faith is bridging the distance between the mountain peaks and the deepest valleys as we meet God in those thin places, which are, as we all know, far rarer than the darker places. And then we do our best to hold on to something that is impossible to contain.

    And the reality is that, of course, we, like James and Peter and John, encounter God far more readily on the mountaintop. And we want to see, we want to be able to see. We commune with God in those moments of glory. We feel the radiant light on our skin.

    We taste that sweet sustenance that’s provided to us there. But it takes a commitment to growth in the spirit, to constantly seeking God in prayer, to really be pushing in on our own whenever we’re not up there, to really come to know that God is just as present, just as powerful in polar opposite moments. So look, notice here in our Luke passage that we just went through, that we see only one life-changing miracle of salvation happen. Just one.

    Notice that it’s not on the mountaintop. As wonderful as all that was, as impactful as all that was, as moving, no, salvation breaks through at the foot of the mountain. In the depths of the darkness, Jesus looks at the devil in the eye, tells him to get out. He saves that young boy from the torment that has long afflicted him.

    That is where salvation is. And the demons, this is interesting too, the demons sure listen to Jesus. They understand what it means that he’s the son of God. Even if the disciples don’t, they’ve been told, This is my son, the chosen one.

    Listen to him. They can’t, but the demons can. And again, just as the disciples were filled with awe on the mountaintop, here in this site of pain and struggle in the midst of everyday life, Luke says, Everyone was overwhelmed by God’s greatness, even though they didn’t see this majestic cloud, they didn’t see Jesus’ robes flash like lightning, they didn’t see Moses and Elijah, but there when that boy was saved, everyone was overwhelmed by God’s greatness. The voice of God has spoken to us too, the same thing.

    This is my son, my chosen one. Listen to him. You and I know who he is. We’ve committed our lives to him.

    Wherever we are, at the highest heights or the lowest depths, that command remains the same. Listen to him. The Jesus who was up there, well, he’s also down here. He’s still clothed in the same power.

    He’s still transforming lives and breaking chains and working liberation in ways that we’ll never see if we only meet him on the mountaintop. In the name of the Father, and the Son, and the Holy Spirit. Amen.

  • This Tuesday (also known as Shrove Tuesday, Fat Tuesday, Mardi Gras), Fairhaven will host the annual Mardi Gras celebration fundraiser.

    Share in a dessert smorgasbord and participate in a fun live auction.

    If you are able bring a new item for the auction and a dessert to share. Auction items must be new and can also be handmade.

    It is a fun night of delights and deals! Wear your purple, green and gold!

    The fun begins at 6:30 P.M.

  • Mardi Gras Event

    • Event: Annual Mardi Gras celebration with an auction and desserts.
    • Location: Fairhaven UMC
    • Time: Tuesday, March 4th at 6:30 PM
    • Details: Proceeds from the event benefit mission and outreach activities. Donations of new items for the auction are welcome.

    Ash Wednesday Services

    • Event: Ashes-to-Go service
    • Locations and time:
      • At Fairhaven UMC: 7:30 AM to 9 AM
      • At the corner of Warrington Ave. and Allen St.: 7:30 AM to 8:15 AM
      • At South Hills Junction: 8:30 AM to 9 AM
    • Details: Participants can receive ashes from clergy.

    • Event: Evening Ash Wednesday Service
    • Location: Spencer UMC
    • Time: Wednesday, March 5th at 7 PM
    • Details: Traditional service for those seeking a more formal observance of the day.

    28-Day Breakthrough Prayer Challenge

    • Event: Start of the 28-day prayer challenge.
    • Location: Various locations (praying together remotely)
    • Time:
      • Starts Ash Wednesday, March 5th
      • Spencer UMC has decided to join the challenge and will pray together at 11 AM each day.
  • audio-thumbnail

    Fairhaven Sermon 2 23 2025
    0:00

    /1305

    Summary

    In this week’s service, Rev. Peg Bowman concluded the mini-series on worship by exploring the structure and purpose of Sunday worship. She emphasized that worship is not just a routine but a renewal of our covenant with God—a commitment to live with and for Jesus. Drawing from the United Methodist Book of Worship, she explained the four-part structure of the service: entrance, proclamation and response, thanksgiving and communion, and sending forth. Each part serves to guide worshippers into God’s presence, hear His word, and be spiritually equipped to live out their faith. While these traditions have been used for centuries, Rev. Bowman reminded the congregation that worship is meant to draw us closer to God, not just to follow a formula. Variations and expressions of worship may differ, but the core purpose remains the same: encountering God in a meaningful way.

    Rev. Bowman also connected the theme of worship to scripture, particularly the messages of Jeremiah and Paul. Jeremiah warned against false worship and emphasized the importance of hearing and following God’s word, while Paul described worship as offering ourselves in service to God and others. True worship is not just about Sunday services but extends into daily life, influencing our actions and relationships. Worship should bring transformation, leading us to love justice, care for others, and reflect God’s truth in the world. Rev. Bowman concluded by encouraging the congregation to see worship as more than words or rituals—it is a response to God’s love and an invitation to live in His presence every day.

    Transcript

    Well, good morning again. This week we have the final installation of our mini-series on worship. Next Sunday will be the last Sunday before Ash Wednesday, which you believe we’re here already, almost in Lent, which also means spring won’t be far away, thank goodness. But before we start with today’s message, there were a couple of anniversary days today in the almanac for February 23rd, and I wanted to share these with you.

    First one is that on this day in 1455, Johannes Gutenberg printed the Bible on the printing press for the very first time. Before that, Bibles had to be copied out by hand. Can you imagine that? Also on this day in 1741 was the first ever performance of Handel’s Messiah, and that was a benefit concert. People loved it, but it was considered in those days to be way too dramatic and contemporary to be done in church.

    The only time in Handel’s lifetime when Messiah was ever done in a church was 17 years later at the Bristol Cathedral, and John Wesley was present in the audience. How cool is that? All right, so this last couple weeks we’ve been talking about worship and why we worship and who we worship. This week we look at the questions, how do we worship and who do we worship with? And the way we worship on a Sunday morning is in a way designed to be sort of like a covenant renewal. When we first became Christians, we made a commitment to Jesus and to God to be people of God, to learn God’s Word, to live it as best we could.

    We committed ourselves to live our lives with and for Jesus. Sunday morning worship is meant to be in a way sort of like a renewal of those vows. We actually do renew our vows literally once a year when we have that renewal of baptismal vows, and God’s vows to us are renewed every year at Easter and also every time we take communion. So given that this is sort of the shape of worship, the United Methodist Book of Worship and our hymnal as well contain liturgies, forms of worship for us to use.

    In the Old Testament, the people of Israel also had liturgies, which are described in the books of Moses. In the New Testament, the house churches also had sort of a basic order of worship that over the centuries developed into something like the liturgy that we use today. And if you visit other churches in other denominations, the liturgies that they use are related to our communion liturgies, similar but not exactly the same. If you happen to have a hymnal near you, by all means grab one if you would like to and take — join me in taking a look at what we’ve been given to worship with.

    Page two of our hymnals, way in the front, page two, which is actually probably about 12 pages in, says the basic pattern of worship at the top of the page there, page two. This outline on page two gives us four general parts to a worship service, the entrance, which might include a prelude, an opening hymn or a prayer. This part is designed to help welcome us into the house of God and to focus our attention on spending time with God. And at this point in the service, we may feel the weight and the concerns of the past week sort of slip off of our shoulders, not because those concerns are gone, but because we are now in the presence of the one who can help us with our concerns.

    The second section of the service is proclamation and response, and this might include scripture readings, a sermon, testimonies, music or art or drama, responding to God’s word through prayers and gifts and acts of service. And at this point in the service, we hope to learn more about God. We hope to come closer to God. We may sing songs of praise or listen to others as they sing.

    We may pray either together or separately, and all these things are meant to draw us closer to God and make it easier for us to hear God’s words and God’s love for us. The third part of the service is thanksgiving and communion, and this may or may not actually include the sacrament of communion. In this section, we give thanks for what we’ve heard, and whatever we do in this part of the service are actions of the family of faith coming together. And then the last, fourth and final part is ascending forth, and that includes the closing hymn, pastoral blessing, and this prepares us to go back out into the world in Jesus’ name to do God’s will.

    This pattern of worship has been used by Christian churches around the world for hundreds of years. It may be expressed differently in different denominations. Some churches, for example, sing almost every part of the service. Some churches put psalms in between the various parts.

    Some churches bring in a rock band. There’s lots of variations here, but the pattern itself will repeat in just about every church except for maybe the Baptists and the non-denominational churches. In our hymnal, don’t put them away yet, we’re not quite done. In our hymnal, this pattern of worship is then fleshed out in a way that is specifically Methodist.

    And this fleshing out begins on page three, the very next page, where it says, In order of Sunday worship using the basic pattern, okay? And this basically, page three through five, sets up the outline of a service. This is sort of the liturgy right here, pages three through five, which may or may not include communion. You can see you can use the same pattern whether you’re having communion or not. That’s the basic setup.

    And this is essentially what we use still to this day. Under this in the book, there are a couple of other variations on the communion service itself. There’s one service of Word and Table number one that starts on page six. There’s service of Word and Table number two that starts on page 12.

    And then there’s a third one over on page 26, service of — actually four, it says, service of Word and Table four. This one’s really unique to the Methodist church. This is a service that was designed for right after — remember the Methodist Episcopal Church merged with the Evangelical brethren, the EUB church back in the ’60s. They came together.

    And this service contains aspects of the traditions of both of those denominations. So this one’s really unique to the Methodist church, and I really appreciate that. So, all these orders of worship are meant to be tools for us, things that are given to us by the church to help us worship God. And the orders of worship here are given to us, are not meant to limit us.

    We’re not limited to what we see here. They’re basic outlines. So these orders of worship are meant to help us find the words to talk to God and to worship God, especially when we’re not quite sure what to say when we come in. The downside of using these forms of worship, which have been time-tested and they’ve stood well for hundreds of years, is that they might start to feel boring, a little bit rote.

    And I know Pastor Dylan, when he works out the weekly liturgy, he does his very best to put a few things here and there that are new so it doesn’t get boring. The other downside to something that’s been around for as long as this has is that people get to know it very well. And people like me who thrive on tradition and like to have things the way they’ve been, you know, we run a risk of almost getting hooked on this. If something changes, I might think, Well, that’s not the way it’s supposed to be done.

    But for those of us who love tradition, we have to be careful that we don’t end up worshiping the tradition instead of worshiping God. The purpose of the liturgy is to guide us into God’s presence, not to have us say, Oh, what a beautiful liturgy. So two things I can guarantee you. Number one, God is never boring.

    And number two, making variations on the liturgy is okay. The word liturgy is an old-fashioned word which literally means work of the people. So we as the people are expected to add to it our thoughts, our prayers, our hearts for God, our dreams, our concerns, all these things get added into the liturgy and work within the liturgy. And God’s promises to us and God’s word for us and God’s love for us are also expressed here in this liturgy.

    But without faith and love between us and God, the liturgy is just words. I should also add that it’s important for the liturgy to leave room for the kind of thing that happened at Asbury not too long ago. You all heard about that, the Asbury renewal. When people kept worshiping for days and didn’t want to quit, they kind of got caught up in the spirit.

    Not that I recommend ever trying to deliberately create that, but if it happens that God’s spirit takes hold of the congregation one morning and we want to keep singing praises and don’t want to stop, go for it, do it! So having said all this about the liturgy, let me just share a few thoughts on the scripture readings that we heard a moment ago about worship. We’ll start out with Jeremiah. So Jeremiah, he was a very young prophet by the way. Some scholars say he started his ministry at around the age of 13, if you can imagine.

    And the message that God gave him throughout his life was that God’s grief over the sins of Israel, that the people had been worshiping Baal, a false god, and God had warned them many times about this. And as a wise person once said, Human beings have a tendency to become like what we worship. If we worship God, we will become more like God. But if we worship a falsehood, we will become people of falsehoods.

    And Jeremiah’s message is in this passage, First off, hear the word of the Lord. So the first thing that people need to do is to hear what God is saying. The second part of Jeremiah’s message grows out of the first. If the people hear God’s word, then they will amend their ways and doings.

    That’s a reason, there’s a reason why we have a prayer of confession in the service every Sunday. But that’s really just a beginning. Confession is not necessarily about what we do wrong. Confession is about speaking truth, both about who we are and about who God is.

    And we confess sin in order for God to forgive our sin so that our relationship with God can be restored. Why do we do this? Because God and sin cannot coexist. God is by nature perfect and holy and perfect love. And God simply by being God cannot occupy the same space with sin.

    Just like light does away with darkness, God’s presence does away with sin. And sin is not necessarily something horribly awful. Sin is just imperfection of some kind, anything that falls short of God. So we come to God and we ask God to take away our imperfections, not because we deserve it, but because this is what Jesus gave his life for.

    Jesus lived for us the life that we’re not able to live and died for us the death that we could not bear so that we could be reunited with our creator God. Only God can provide this. Going into a church building does not make a person holy. Going through all the motions of worship without encountering God is a waste of time.

    As we come to worship, we pray for God’s presence with us. We pray to hear God’s word. We pray that God would lead us into living lives outside the church that reflect God’s truth and God’s love to the world. God says through the prophet Jeremiah, If we truly amend our ways and our doings, if we act justly with one another, if we do not oppress the alien, the orphan, and the widow, or shed innocent blood, and if we do not go after other gods, then God will dwell with us in this place in the land that God has given.

    God is true to God’s word. And for this reason and many others, we worship. And then moving on to our passage from Romans, Paul talks about spiritual worship, which he like Jeremiah sees as being connected to moral behavior. Paul says that we are to offer ourselves for the service of others.

    Paul appeals to the believers who live in the imperial city of Rome, the very center of empire, not to live according to the ways of Rome, but to live out the faith on the basis of what God has done through Jesus. Now back in those days, there were people in Rome and elsewhere in the empire who believed that Caesar was a god, or if not a god, then at the very least appointed by and blessed by the gods. And when Paul was writing this letter, the man on the throne of Rome was Nero, the guy who played the fiddle while Rome burned. Imagine thinking of him as a god.

    Rather than worship this, the followers of Jesus worship God. And real worship of the living God results in loving relationships between God and ourselves and ourselves and others. So real worship is not just for Sundays, it spills over into everyday life. The way we live shows the world God’s righteousness and God’s love for all people.

    Real worship also prevents us from drowning in individualism, which is, I confess I’m as independent as anyone, but us Christians, as Christians, we are all parts of one body. And because of this, we care for each other. When one part of the body hurts, we all hurt. When one part of the body is thriving, it brings us all joy.

    And Paul also talks about worshiping with our bodies. Now we Methodists don’t do that so much in the Methodist tradition, but not the way the Catholics do, you know, with the up and the down and the kneeling and the getting up, we don’t do that so much. But there is something about the thought of worshiping with our bodies. And I think that might be one of the reasons why we stand to sing and sometimes stand to pray.

    It focuses our attention. Worship also builds us into the body of Christ. And when we take communion, we share Jesus’ body symbolically, but in a very real way. The fact that we all share from the same bread and the same cup, again, symbolically, especially post-COVID, but we share from the one.

    And in the sacrament, we are made one. We are made one with Jesus and one with God and one with each other. And because we take it into ourselves, our faith is truly, really embodied. It’s not just theoretical.

    Paul then wraps up this passage with a review of faith, hope, and love, those big three that he talks about so often, for strangers and for newcomers, as well as for those who’ve always been here. And speaking of worshiping in the body, I wanted to wrap up today with a very touching story that I read this past week. It’s a testimony of a Christian woman living in Canada who, as she got to know Jesus, she began to think about the fact that Jesus had a body, just like yours and mine. That when Jesus was a kid, he would have run around and gotten dusty and dirty and thirsty and tired, just like kids do.

    And when Jesus grew up as a rabbi, that he used his body to touch and heal people. This woman, as she grew in her faith, came to believe that we give to others because Jesus has given to us. And she took this in a very literal way, not recommending we all do it exactly like she did, but she heard the message in church that we should love one another and show hospitality to strangers and contribute to the needs of others, as Jesus did. And as she thought on these things, she felt called to give a very unusual gift.

    Her husband had just recovered from a kidney infection, and that experience made her realize just how important our kidneys can be. And she felt called to donate one, not to anyone in particular because her husband was fine, but she realized that she had something that she didn’t need two of that might save someone’s life. Here’s what she wrote. These are her words.

    She says, Our bodies are wonderfully made. When you donate blood, you don’t go around for the rest of your life with less blood. Your body replaces that blood within a few weeks. When you donate a kidney, the remaining kidney grows in size to do the extra work.

    If you donate part of your liver, in two months your liver will grow back to the same size as it was. And she concluded, I think we all want to live in a world where we save each other’s lives. And that’s the kind of world that Jesus came to tell us about, and he showed us exactly how to do it because he donated his body to us. And we follow in his footsteps.

    She said, Take our lives and let them be consecrated, Lord, to thee. She ended up donating a kidney to be used as a transplant. She never found out who it went to, but somebody today is alive and well because she followed where Jesus was leading. And again, like I said, not that all of us are called to donate kidneys, but all of us are called to be a part of the body of Christ in our worship and in our lives.

    And as we begin to learn how to do this, we do this as we join together as the body of Christ in worship. In Jesus’ name, amen. Thank you.

  • audio-thumbnail

    Fairhaven Sermon 2 16 2025
    0:00

    /892.512

    In this week’s service, Rev. Dylan Parson explores the question “why do we worship?” He notes that his own upbringing was unconventional, but finds himself drawn to worship because he believes it is essential for personal growth and connection with God.

    Rev. Parson delves into the biblical context of Sabbath observance in Exodus 31:15-17, where God commands rest every seventh day. He argues that this concept is not just a day off, but a sacrifice of useful time and resources offered to God’s sake. Parson encourages listeners to recommit themselves to regular worship as a means of grace for growth and transformation.

    Travscript

    You may or may not have gathered this about my biography over the years, but I did not grow up going to church. That was just not something my family did. I didn’t start until I was probably 13, 12 or 13. And as far as I can remember, outside of weddings, which were pretty rare, I think I went to church one single time as a child.

    We went to see my best friend’s mom sing in the choir one Sunday morning. It was kind of a special occasion. She asked us to see her sing one time before the family moved to Florida. So it was a special solo for their final Sunday or something.

    That family was United Methodist, so I guess Methodism was my first exposure to church. And most of my childhood friends who had any religion at all were Catholic. And I remember thinking as a non-church-going kid, Why do they do that every Sunday morning? Why do they go to church? I remember asking my mom that when I was little. Why do they go, and why don’t we? And I mean, the answer was very obvious from our perspective, is that, you know, you sleep in, we get a nice breakfast.

    And if you step back for a moment, if you set aside the habits that we’ve come to develop after either a short time or a lifetime of worship attendance, I think that’s still a good question. Why do we worship? From kindergarten through retirement, most people only get a max of two days off a week, one of which is usually Sunday. And many of us, myself included, really do enjoy sleeping in once in a while, taking our time making breakfast, going out for brunch, maybe mowing the grass without having to be anywhere for the rest of the day. And a Sunday morning worship service really messes with all that.

    It robs us of the very little free time that we get in our modern lifestyles. And for what? So we can sing songs together? I mean, who even does that anymore? That’s not really a popular pastime. Is it to hear scripture? Well, you can conveniently read the Bible in the comfort of your own home, or you can go watch The Chosen or something. Is it because we do great mission work? Well, the Salvation Army, the Red Cross, Habitat for Humanity, countless other organizations do that better than we do, more effectively.

    And is it for the sermon? I doubt it. You can definitely subscribe to far more gifted preachers than me. You can get the sermon delivered as a podcast right to your phone. Listen to it while you drive, while you go to work.

    And it’s very easy to see why people might choose not to spend precious Sunday morning hours here or in a place like this. So again, why do we worship? And this is an extremely important question for each of us. You’d better be able to articulate why you come to church if you’re ever going to get someone else to go with you. We’d better be able to explain why it’s important to us if we’re ever going to convince someone new to faith or exploring faith that it should be important to them.

    You may or may not know that regular collective corporate worship is not something that all religions do frequently. Muslims are the closest to us. They’ll go to mosques. Some of them will multiple times a day to pray and worship.

    Most go at least on Friday. That’s their big sort of prayer day. Buddhists and Hindus though, billions of people, they don’t have a standard practice of weekly worship. They’ll go to the temple here and there, but a lot of their religious practice is at home by themselves.

    They have little altars. Most modern observant Jews do often attend weekly services. Their Sabbath day is Saturday rather than Sunday, but it’s not always been that way, biblically. Jews in Jesus’ day were not gathering for worship one day a week per se.

    That would be a totally foreign idea for them. Whenever you see synagogue in the Bible, that’s not what they’re doing. Sacrifice ritual revolved around the temple in Jerusalem, which is why we see in the Bible over and over again people making pilgrimages for major holidays, for festivals, to buy an animal as sacrifice, that sort of thing. They encountered God just in that one place.

    We hear that in Jesus’ discussion with a Samaritan woman at the well this morning in our gospel reading. The Jews worshiped God in Jerusalem because that’s where God was believed to dwell in a very real way. Their Samaritan cousins, like the woman we hear from today, worshiped God in their temple on Mount Gerizim. Local synagogues were not like churches.

    They weren’t holding worship services, nothing like that. They were much more focused on education, on debate around the Torah. It was more of a study sort of thing. So whenever you read about Jesus or anyone else in Scripture going to the synagogue, it’s really just not comparable to going to church.

    So regular gathered worship in the form that we do it has not been an important focus for everybody everywhere, not even our Jewish forebears. So why is it for us? Well even if we do it differently than Jewish people do, less so now, we can trace it to our Jewish roots in the Old Testament, specifically to the practice of Sabbath. That’s the focus of our Exodus reading this morning. It describes the institution of the Sabbath and the aftermath of the Hebrews’ exodus from Egypt.

    The Sabbath has a very particular purpose. It’s not just a day off. That concept has had somewhat of a renaissance among Christians over the past few years. People have started talking about Sabbath a lot.

    That’s often how it’s interpreted as a day off. But that’s not right. It’s not just a day of resting. That’s just called a day off.

    We have those. But at the same time, observe the Sabbath is not just another way of saying go to church either. It’s not just checking off some kind of ritual box that we do this this day of the week because God said to. It’s not that.

    Neither of these concepts fully encompass what the Sabbath is supposed to be about. Instead, Sabbath should be understood as kind of a sacrifice offered to God. Think about that. It’s giving up.

    Useful time. And along with that time, resources in a self-giving kind of way. It’s sacrificial because the Sabbath day is one whole seventh of the week. One whole seventh of your life.

    And so if you don’t work on the Sabbath, you’re one seventh over 10 percent less productive than you otherwise could be. If you’re not working on the Sabbath, you’re making well over 10 percent less money. You’re wasting a perfectly good work day, leaving stuff undone that you could otherwise be doing. And that’s precisely the point.

    It’s a sacrifice for God. It’s expressing trust that God will provide for us anyway and reminds us that it’s God’s grace, not our own effort, that is fundamental to our lives. You being here right now instead of cleaning the house or getting caught up on laundry or doing something you have to do is a sacrifice deciding that this time is for God and not us. And notice also that goes along with Sabbath, there’s a social justice and environmental focus even in Exodus.

    This is really interesting. Every seventh year, because the Sabbath worked not just weekly but as years, every seventh year, not just every seventh day, God tells the people on that seventh year not to farm their land. Just leave it sit. This lets the land rest.

    It’s like a crop rotation thing which is good for the land, but also whatever does grow, whatever wheat takes root or whatever, it’s to be left for the poor, for the wild animals to eat. It’s not just given away. The people are also to leave their vineyards, their olive trees unharvested the seventh year for that same reason. It’s for the animals.

    It’s for the poor. You don’t need it. You get what you need. In those other six years, the seventh is to be sacrificed.

    And every single week Sabbath, the Sabbath commandment to rest is not just for observant Jews. Moses is quite clear. Moses is speaking in Exodus. Even the farm animals deserve to rest from their work.

    The oxen, the donkeys, they should get a day off. So do servants. So do immigrant laborers in the field, very specifically mentioned in the text. Worship, sacrifice, our responsibility to care for the poor, the immigrant, the creation, all of that is really tightly intertwined in Sabbath.

    We have to make room in our lives, in our hearts for all of these. We reorient ourselves one day a week toward one another, toward the Lord, away from our concerns, our needs, toward God and other people and animals. And in some ways I think that you can conceptualize Sabbath as parallel to tithing. This sounds weird, but think about this here.

    I’m sure you can think of things that you’d rather spend your money on or donate it to than give a set portion to Christ’s work through the church. Because again, the Salvation Army, the Red Cross, Habitat, they’re doing it better. They’re much more effective. They’re getting all kinds of stuff done in the world.

    You could also spend it somewhere. The same way you can certainly think of a better use of your Sunday morning than offering it to God in worship. You can imagine doing something much more productive. But the sacrifice is the point.

    It’s not just where that hour goes. It’s not just where that money goes. It’s the fact that it is coming from you, out of your hands, to God. You believing that you can make better choices for how you’re going to use your life, your resources, than doing what God calls you to do is the point.

    It’s a sacrifice of praise, a means of grace for us all to grow as we seek to conform our lives to God’s vision of how we’re to live. So that’s why we set aside the time for God. But why in worship specifically? Why go to church? Why do precisely what we’re doing here? Why do we fill this time with the reading of scripture, the proclamation of the word, the sharing of prayers, the singing of hymns, the giving of offerings, the partaking of the sacraments? Our intent here, in Jesus’ words to that Samaritan woman at the well, is to worship in spirit and in truth, which is what God seeks of worshipers. In gathering to worship, we’ve set aside, first of all, the sacrifice of our time, and then we seek to fill that sacrifice with true worship, worship that is focused on the wonder, the majesty of God, the gift of salvation through Jesus, the ongoing work of the Spirit in us and in the world.

    We’re pursuing God’s truth together here in the hope that God will speak to us. We’re seeking truth. We’re worshiping in spirit, offering our spirits to hopefully encounter the Holy Spirit. We’re stepping out of our daily living, our schedule, into God’s time to hear God’s voice in an atmosphere of holiness, of reverence, of prayer.

    The time of worship that we spend in spirit and in truth is, above all, time spent with the Father who loves us, who encourages us, who sees and hears us, and also a time of challenging, of learning, of growth, of repentance. All of that is what we’re here for, spirit and truth. It’s obviously very easy for all of that to fade into the background, whether it’s because we’re here every Sunday and sort of become desensitized to it, or because we’re not here often enough and forget just how important it is. And so worship just becomes another sort of thing we do, a task to check off the weekly to-do list, like going to the grocery store.

    Or maybe it starts to feel like a passive experience, like you’re just here to watch and listen while me and everybody up here does the worship. You’re just here for the show. Maybe staying home becomes easier and easier as we get detached from the necessity of this sacrifice of time and praise. But this is a special time in a special place.

    We’re doing holy work when we come here. We’re doing what God asks us to do. The task that God gives us, prayer, worship, that’s all work. That’s all a job that we are given.

    And we’re uniting as God’s people to turn over our time, our lives, our worries, our whole world to God in prayer. Listen again to what Jesus said to that woman. The Father looks for those who worship in spirit and in truth. The Father seeks them out.

    And so God promises to show up when we do all that. Whenever we seek to be that kind of people who worship in spirit and in truth, God’s looking for us and will show up when we do it. And so we’re invited today to renew our commitment to worship, to orient our lives around offering our time, our praise to God. We’re invited to reclaim and remember why we’re here to begin with, to get in touch with the ways in which you really do meet God here, because I bet you have.

    I bet you do. I bet you can think of times when you’ve met God in worship. And finally, before you leave this place today and head into the week to come, I’d ask you to have a real and personal answer in your head that you could share with anybody who asks, Why do you worship? Think about it today. Why do you worship? In the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit, amen.