Fairhaven UMC

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    Fairhaven Sermon 10 22 2023
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    Summary

    Pastor Peg discusses stewardship and giving in this sermon. She notes that we give to God because God has given so much to us, even when it feels like God is far away. She warns against idolatry and giving to things that are not of God. Peg emphasizes that we are all made in God’s image and belong to God. Therefore, we should use our unique talents and gifts to serve God’s purposes. She encourages the congregation to pray about how to best use their abilities and time to contribute to the church community and beyond.

    Pastor Peg concludes that as we discover our God-given gifts through self-reflection and prayer, we will find fulfillment in living out God’s plan for each of us.

    In summary, this sermon highlights the importance of giving back to God our time, talents, and resources. Pastor Peg reminds us that everything we have is from God, so we should steward it well. She advises looking inward to understand our abilities and then looking outward to see how we can serve God and others.

    Transcript

    Well, welcome to week three of our month-long series on stewardship. And just to give a quick recap, last time when I was here with you two weeks ago, I preached on thinking as we give, who is it that we are giving to when we give to God? We give because we want to give back to God because God has already done so much for us. And in a lot of ways, when we give to God, we are like children giving to a parent. I mean, there’s nothing that we can give God that God doesn’t already have.

     But when we give to God, we become more like God, just like our children become more like us as they grow up. And last week, for week two of our series, I was over at Hilltop, and we looked at giving to God from what we own. And the scripture reading then was from Exodus, and it was told the story of the golden calf, which I believe you heard last week also, how the people of Israel, when Moses was missing for 40 days on Mount Horeb, the people panicked, and they assumed that God was missing too, and they demanded that Aaron, the priest, make them a god to lead them through the wilderness. And so Aaron told them to take off all their gold jewelry they were wearing, and he made it into a golden calf, and they worshiped this idol until God and Moses put a stop to that.

     We learned a number of things about stewardship in that passage, which actually kind of surprised me because I never thought of that as being a particular stewardship passage. But first off, if we ever find ourselves thinking, God has forgotten me, we need to know this is not true. The prophet Isaiah says in Isaiah chapter 49, Zion, that is Israel, has said, the Lord has forsaken me, my Lord has forgotten me. But God answers, can a woman forget her nursing child or show no compassion on the child of her womb? Even these might forget, yet I will not forget you.

     See I have inscribed you on the palms of my hands. So before we give, we need to know that these words are true. We need to know that because as children of God, when we give, we give from a position of security and strength, not from weakness or fear or obligation. We need to know because if we give from fear, like the people around the golden calf did, we often end up giving to something that is an idol.

     And idols are far from gone in our world today. There are quite a few out there who would be very happy to take our money. So we can be sure that God remembers us. And secondly, before we give, we need to know who and what we are giving to, especially in times when God feels far away.

     And I believe that we are living in times like that right now. We live in a time when, like the Israelites, we are waiting for God. We are waiting for God to renew our churches. We are waiting for God to set things right in our nation and in our communities.

     We are waiting for God to put an end to the floods and the fires and the earthquakes and the wars that we see all around us. We are living in a time when people are looking at each other and saying, Jesus has got to be coming back soon. Don’t believe it. Don’t believe it.

     In times like these, beware of idols. In times like these, where it comes to giving, we begin with prayer. We ask God what God wants us to do. We take time to listen for God’s answers.

     And when we give, what we give is between us and God. Nobody else’s business. So that’s a quick summary of what I shared with Hilltop last week. This week, we have a different scripture and a different way of looking at giving.

     So to set the scene for the scripture for today, our scriptural reading for this week from Matthew takes place during Holy Week. Palm Sunday has already happened, and unknown to the disciples at this point, the cross is only a few days away. Jesus is using the time he has left to be in the temple, teaching the people, and they are hanging on every word. They are into this.

     And suddenly we see a group coming toward Jesus to ask a question. Now the group is made up of the disciples of the Pharisees. I noticed the Pharisees themselves didn’t bother to come. They sent the seminarians.

     I was thinking that’s kind of interesting. And also the Herodians. Now this is a really weird alliance because these two groups usually hate each other. They hate each other because the Pharisees oppose Rome.

     They oppose Roman occupation. They don’t like Roman officials. They hate everything about Rome. They want control of Israel to be returned to Israel.

     The Herodians, on the other hand, are supporters of Herod, who is the puppet king ruling under Rome’s authority. So they are total opposites, except that they both agree that Jesus is dangerous. So they come together to try to catch him in a question. And the question is this.

     Is it lawful to pay taxes to the emperor or not? And the answer to this, of course, depends on which set of laws one is obedient to. The Roman law or the law of Moses? The Herodians, who support Rome, of course say yes to the tax. The Pharisees oppose it for two reasons. First off, this tax that they’re talking about makes it possible for the emperor to oppress the people.

     Basically, they are paying their oppressors to oppress them. And secondly, the coin used to pay the tax has a picture of the emperor on it, and the emperor thinks he’s a god. So even just owning that coin means having a false god in your house. The coin was, as one theologian recently said, a bite-sized bit of blasphemy.

     So if Jesus defends the people and the faith by saying no to the emperor and the emperor’s tax, that’s treason. And a charge like that could get him crucified. So Jesus’ answer to the question is as deep as it is brilliant. He says, show me the coin.

     Whose likeness is this? Caesar’s, they say. And Jesus answers, give to Caesar what is Caesar’s, and give to God what is God’s. Now if this conversation happened today, Jesus might have said, give to Washington what is Washington’s, right? And give to God what is God’s. The most important point that he’s making is that we are created in God’s likeness.

     Human beings, each one of us without exception, is made in the image of God. And that’s true no matter where a person is from, whether it be America, Europe, Asia, Africa, South America, you get the idea. Every human being is created in God’s likeness. The tragedy of life here on earth is that people forget that.

     And as a result, there’s a lot of pain in the world. And when we’re hurting, we tend to forget who we are and whose we are. But no matter what life brings us, we are made in God’s image. Not that we look like God, because God is a spirit, but our ability to think, to reason, to feel, to love, to experience empathy.

     This is what God is like. And we were designed by God to be like God. Therefore, when it comes to paying the taxes, which people in all times and all places have found to be a burden, I mean, what is that saying about the only two things certain in life are death and taxes, right? But if the emperor wants this cheap metallic stuff, if the emperor wants this, let him have it. In the long run, this is worthless.

     I mean, that coin with Caesar’s face on it that people fought and died for back then, you couldn’t buy a stick of gum with that today. And a hundred years from now, this won’t be worth anything. Now, it’s worth that much now, but this won’t be worth anything either. People will be using crypto and they’ll be killing each other over nothing, literally.

     But for eternity, we are made in the image of God, and this is worth infinitely more because God has made us for eternity. God’s image, like God, lasts forever. This also means that people who bear God’s image belong to God. We are God’s to care for, to love, to teach, to lead as God sees fit for God’s purposes.

     God made each one of us unique to fit the times and the places in which we live. Not only are all of us different, but the experiences that make up our lives are different so that no two of us is ever exactly alike and no two of us ever experiences life exactly the same way. For this reason, we are able to work in tandem with one another to help one another, which is God’s plan. And this leads us to the third thing to consider about stewardship, and that is the stewardship of our time, our talents, and our abilities.

     One theologian puts it this way, stewardship includes participating in God’s mission, listening to God’s law, doing justice, loving kindness, a way of life that includes opposing cruelty, injustice, and arrogance in all their forms. The question then becomes, what has God gifted me to do? And this may or may not have anything to do with our careers. The question deals with the raw materials that God has put in here. In a sense, we grow into self-knowledge throughout our lives.

     We never stop learning about ourselves, but there are a few things that usually remain constant. And what I’m talking about here, just in this case, to some extent is kind of, remember the old book called What Colors Your Parachute? By the way, that thing is still being published. I just looked it up. It’s still out there.

     But the book is designed to help people plan their careers. But it does a lot more than that. It asks questions not only about what we study in school, but about things like, do we work better in large groups or in small groups or on our own? Do we prefer a lot of direction from our bosses, or do we prefer to work independently? Do we learn well from books, or do we prefer to hear people explain things? Answers to these questions and others like them tell us a lot about what God has created in each one of us. And there are no right or wrong answers, just an amazing variety of combinations, which is exactly what God intended.

     So as we get to know ourselves during adolescence and beyond, we discover our purpose, or maybe a handful of purposes for our life. We begin to learn with joy who we are and why we’re here. And the lectionary book that we’re working from says that God has marked every human with a role, an image, and an identity that comes with challenge, joy, and fulfillment. So as we learn about ourselves and who God created in here, we also learn about what we have that we can offer to others.

     The question then is, what is God calling us to offer to the body of Christ and to the community around us? If we know what God has given us, then we know what we have to offer. And like any type of giving, giving from our time and talents begins with prayer. We talk to God and we ask God what God would have us share from the many gifts that God has given us. Some of the gifts we might discover in ourselves might include things like the ability to empathize, the ability to comfort others, the ability to welcome strangers, the ability to advise or offer wisdom, the ability to see through nonsense—I like that one—the ability to have faith in others, the ability to heal, the ability to teach.

     This is just a tiny sampling of the gifts that God gives. We can pray about this and ask others who know us what they see in us that could be of help to others. And the answer to this prayer and God’s direction for how we share will be different for each one of us. So keep asking God and keep listening for the answers.

     And may God bless our efforts to discover what God has created in us and to discover the joy of living into God’s plan. Amen. Thank you. Thank you.

    • Hilltop’s Trunk or Treat event is this weekend, October 28 from 4-6pm. They need donations of candy and treats. Contact Lou Anne for more info or contact me to reach out to Lou Anne.
    • It’s time to submit nominations for the Christmas Store project to help families in need. Submit nomination forms by Sunday, November 12. Place in offering plate or contact Stormy.
    • Book Club meets Tuesdays via Zoom, currently reading Just Mercy. Contact Pastor Peg for Zoom link.
    • Bible study meets Wednesdays via Zoom, currently studying Book of Romans. Contact Dave Smoyer for Zoom link.
    • All Saints Day is November 5. Submit names of loved ones to be remembered by next Sunday. Forms were emailed earlier this week or contact me for a form.
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    Fairhaven Sermon 10 8 2023
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    Summary

    This week’s sermon begins by acknowledging that October is a time when many churches discuss stewardship and giving. However, Pastor Peg says that before talking about giving, we need to focus on who we are giving to – God. Pastor Bowman then reflects on God’s qualities – God is our heavenly parent, creator, provider, teacher, and savior who loves us deeply.

    The sermon then examines a passage from Exodus containing the Ten Commandments. Pastor Peg explains that the commandments are not arbitrary rules but rather loving guidance from God about how to live justly and treat others with dignity. Pastor Peg connects this to the idea of stewardship, which is carefully and responsibly managing what God has entrusted to our care. The sermon emphasizes using our unique gifts and talents as an act of stewardship that brings joy. Overall, Pastor Peg’s message is that stewardship begins with focusing on God’s love and who God has created us to be.

    Transcript

    Well, this month of October is traditionally the time of year when many churches focus on the subject of stewardship. And so it’s kind of odd to me that I’ve been here with the partnership so long as I have, and I’ve never preached a sermon on giving, or heard one for that matter. I will get to it one day, but not today. As Pastor Dylan said in an email earlier this week, God trusts us to use what God has given us in God’s service, and this can mean a lot of different things.

     So this month we are preaching a sermon series called Thriving, which touches on stewardship and other ways of serving God. And before I begin, I want to start by focusing on God. all talk about giving in any way, in any context, we need to start with who we’re giving to. I mean, think about how we Christmas shop, right? We think about the person or the people who we are shopping for.

     What do they like? What do they enjoy? What are they into? And this involves thinking about that person or those people. So before we start planning on giving to God, I think we need to spend a moment thinking about God and what God likes. God is our heavenly parent, our creator, our designer, our provider, our teacher, our savior. God is the one who loves us more than anyone else.

     And when we stand in God’s presence, we stand kind of like children wanting to say thank you to God who has given us more than we can imagine, more than we know. At the same time, when we think about giving to God, it’s kind of like the old question, what do you get for the one who has everything? Because God really does have everything. I mean, if God created everything and if God needed something, God could create that too. So we start by letting God be God.

     What is it that our heavenly parent might want from us? What is it that any parent wants? Love, of course, and respect. I mean, that’s what every parent treasures most from their children. What a child has or what a child does may please a parent, but that’s not what the relationship is about. More than anything, like a parent, God wants to hear from us.

     God loves to hear our voices. When we pray, when we sing, when we read God’s Word, we are being God’s children. Above all, God wants us to hear God saying to each one of us, You are my beloved son, or You are my beloved daughter. That’s where it all begins.

     So this morning in our scriptures we heard two lessons. We heard the psalm, we read the psalm together, and we heard the gospel. But as you know, every Sunday we actually have four scripture readings assigned, Old Testament, psalm, New Testament, gospel. And today I would like to set a foundation for our subject of stewardship in what would have been our Old Testament reading.

     The Old Testament reading assigned for this day is Exodus 20, verses 1 through 20. And I won’t read the whole thing because I don’t need to. You all know it. It’s the passage that starts out, I am the Lord your God who brought you out of the land of Egypt, out of the house of slavery.

     You shall have no other gods before me. You shall not make for yourself an idol. You shall not take the name of your Lord your God in vain. Remember the Sabbath day to keep it holy.

     Honor your Father. And you guys, it sounds familiar, right? You know this, right? Today’s Old Testament reading is the Ten Commandments, words that most of us have known most of our lives. And just to finish out the ten, God also said, You shall not murder, you shall not commit adultery, you shall not steal, you shall not bear false witness against your neighbor, you shall not covet anything that belongs to your neighbor. So what does this have to do with stewardship? Actually quite a bit.

     Will you take a look at it? Leadership at its foundation is making good use and wise use of what God has given us. And God’s Word in the Bible is one of the greatest gifts that God has given us. And that’s why I really appreciate the message that’s out on our bulletin board this week. Read the Bible.

     It’s user-friendly. Plus we offer tech support on the side. That’s great. That’s exactly right.

     Yes, right on. Yes. We approach God’s Word with the intention to be good stewards of it by reading it, understanding it, explaining it to others, sharing it, living it. God’s Word in the Bible is the greatest resource we have for living.

     In the Bible, we learn about how God called the people of Israel to be God’s chosen people and how God set them free from slavery and guided them through the wilderness and into the Promised Land. We learn all these things are true for us also, because God has set us free from slavery to sin. God has set us free to be God’s people, and God is guiding us through this life, this wilderness, into the promised land of God’s kingdom. In the Old Testament, we see the people of Israel becoming a nation, not just in the political sense, but in the sense that they were and are God’s people.

     The promises given in the Old Testament are to the people of Israel. Talk about a Messiah who will one day come and call God’s people back to God. And here are just a few of those promises from the Old Testament, from the book of Numbers. I see him, but not now.

     I behold him, but not near. A star will come out of Jacob, and a scepter will rise out of Israel. From the book of the prophet Isaiah, Here is my servant whom I uphold, my chosen one in whom I delight. I will put my spirit on him, and he will bring justice to the nations.

     And also from Isaiah, For behold, darkness shall cover the earth, and gross darkness the people, but the Lord shall arise upon thee and his glory shall be seen upon thee and the Gentiles shall come to thy light and kings to the brightness of thy rising. All of these passages and many more come to us from the Jewish prophets and the Jewish kings and we build on their foundation. So the first thing we need to be good stewards is God’s Word in all its fullness, in all its history, with all of its foundation, in all that God has done for God’s people for thousands of years. And where it comes to the Ten Commandments specifically, in the words of the Salt Commentary that I love so much, you all have heard me talk about that, they said that the commandments Commandments are not arbitrary prohibitions, but rather loving limits that guide human beings toward living with justice and grace and dignity with both God and neighbor.

     The commandments transform doing the right thing into a calling, something that we do because we are devoted to God. Following these commandments comes from the heart, not just from a sense of duty. We do them, we follow the commandments because we love God. And we love God because God first loved us.

     Now at this point I need to stop just for a second and talk about the word stewardship since we’re going to be doing that for the next month. One dictionary I read defines stewardship as the job of supervising or taking care of something. Another dictionary says stewardship is the careful and responsible management of something entrusted to one’s care. I kind of like that one better.

     But there’s an older meaning, a historic meaning that I think is closer to what God is talking about. In the old days, and even today in some very wealthy places, a steward is someone who is employed in a large household to manage domestic concerns such as the supervision of servants, collection of rents, keeping of accounts. In other words, it’s a position with a very high level of trust to care for and manage a large household, including the financials, on behalf of the owner. That’s what a steward does.

     For those of you who’ve enjoyed watching Downton Abbey, Mr. Carson, even though he was only the butler by title, was for all intents and purposes the steward of the household. He was the ultimate in being discreet. He was the right-hand man of the Earl of Grantham, who he served with all his heart, out of love, not just because he was paid.

     This is the role that we are called to as stewards, each one of us. We are called to be stewards of what God has placed in our hands, whatever that may be, to hold for God and to preserve for God and to use for the benefit of God everything that we have and everything that we are and everything that we have the ability to influence. Thinking along these lines, John Wesley, the founder of the Methodist Church, considered stewardship to be absolutely essential to the Christian faith. Wesley’s teachings about stewardship usually centered around money, but not for the reasons that we might think.

     As the Methodist movement grew and as people in the Methodist movement got better at earning money, because you remember it first started out with the poor, but as the movement grew, people got better at earning money, got better at saving by using the gifts and the skills that God had given them. What happened really naturally was that Methodists began to be wealthy people. And the Methodist movement, like I said, it started out with a ministry to the poor. And John Wesley, at the end of his long life, he died in his late 90s, the end of his long life was concerned about this.

     He was concerned about this trend. He said, and I quote this, he said, Wealth and the failure to give are the most serious threats to the Methodist movement in particular and Christianity in general. That’s our founder. Wealth and the failure to give, the greatest threats to the faith.

     Food for thought. Wesley’s teaching on stewardship, like most of what he did, was very simple and very direct. He said, and you’ve probably heard this before, Gain all you can, save all you can, and give all you can. Three points that he drilled home whenever he preached.

     He said, Gain all you can, of course, by working for it. Save all you can, not just by stashing money in the bank, but by limiting spending and not buying things we don’t need. And then finally, give all you can, doing our part to distribute God’s resources fairly. Wesley said that doing the first two, the gaining and the saving, without doing the The third would be worse than ever having been a Christian in the first place.

     Of course, Wesley is speaking about money here, but his concept applies to other areas of life as well. We should never, for example, stop gaining in knowledge or in understanding or in compassion. We should never stop saving knowledge in order to share it or saving compassion in order to offer it. If we have knowledge but never speak what we know, our knowledge is wasted.

     If we feel kindness and compassion but never express it, the people we care for will never know. So it all needs to be all three, gaining, saving, and giving. With all of this said as background, now I’d like to turn our attention to the scripture reading for today. At this point in the reading from Matthew, Jesus is in the temple and the events of Palm Sunday have just happened maybe a day or two before.

     And Jesus is sitting in the temple and teaching and the crowds love to listen to him. You can just imagine how many people were taking days off from work to check Jesus out. Not so much the Pharisees and the other religious authorities who were standing around in the background waiting for Jesus to make a mistake so that they could pounce, right? So Jesus tells a story. He talks about a man who planted a vineyard and immediately the people listening to Jesus know that he is talking about the nation of Israel because Israel is often referred to in the Old Testament as a vineyard, so they know this.

     God is the owner of the vineyard, has done everything to raise healthy vines. He has protected it, he has built a watchtower so guards can watch over it, and he leases it to tenants and goes away for a while. And the tenants represent the nation of Israel’s kings and priests and religious leaders. So when it comes time for the harvest, which should have been a time of celebration, like our Thanksgiving, harvest time, tragedy happens.

     The landowner sends a message to the tenants to bring some grapes for the celebration, but the tenants mistreat and murder the messenger. And the owner tries again and the same thing happens. And then the owner sends his son saying to himself, Well, they’ll respect my son. But the tenants say to each other, Hey, this is the heir.

     Let’s kill him and the vineyard will be ours. Now what Jesus has not told the religious leaders yet is that He Himself is the Son, and the religious leaders are the murderers. And at this point in the story, Jesus asks the religious leaders point blank, What will the owner of that vineyard do to those tenants? And they answered, He will put them to a miserable death. And Jesus said, Have you not read in the Scriptures, ‘The stone the builders rejected has become the cornerstone’? Therefore the kingdom of God will be taken away from you and given to a people who produce the fruits of the kingdom.

     And they realized that he was talking about them and they went away to make plans to do the very thing Jesus had said they were going to do, kill the Son. This particular passage doesn’t have a whole lot to do with stewardship, at least not on the main point. The main point of the story is not directed at the vines, it’s Jesus is speaking to the evil tenants. So the parable is actually a word of warning to those of us who preach to be certain that we are doing it with loyalty and accuracy and love for God and God’s people.

     But this parable does have a secondary meaning for all of us, which is that as vines, we were created to grow and be healthy and produce fruit. One author puts it this way, Let us be challenged by this parable to speak into our culture words of life and hope and blessing. Another author says, The fruits that we bear include justice and mercy and humility. We’re not limited to these, but if we don’t see the fruits in our lives, we can turn to God and ask for God’s help because God is the vine grower and God knows what we need.

     And I would also ask from my own life experience that we bear fruit when we, I would add rather, that we bear fruit when we use the gifts and the talents that God has given each one of us. For example, I have known all my life that I have gifts in teaching and in music, but I use them as often as I can. The great joy of this though is that when we use the gifts God has given us, it’s a It’s a pleasure to do so because it’s what we’re designed to do. The artist takes joy in painting and the sportsman takes joy in sports and the cook takes joy in cooking and all of these gifts and so many more can be shared with God’s people and done to God’s glory.

     The Ten Commandments that God gives us in Exodus and the words of warning that Jesus gives us in Matthew guide us to think about what’s in here. What has God created in here that God wants us to share with the world? Each one of us has something unique and beautiful to share, given by God. Using those gifts is where stewardship begins. It’s our calling, it’s our joy, it’s our privilege to be stewards of what God has given us.

     And so we do so to God’s glory. Amen.

    • Hilltop Trunk or Treat is coming up and is currently collecting candy donations, the event will be Saturday, 10/28 from 4-6pm. – Contact Stormie to help out
    • Christmas Store preparations are underway – Taking nominations for needy families until Nov 12. Donations of gifts and money are needed.
    • Donations are needed for Gala gift baskets and silent auction items by Nov 1. Please donate gift cards, themed basket items, auction items.
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