• Living Stones Monthly Free Dinner

    • Event: Monthly free community meal open to all
    • Location: Fairhaven UMC
    • Time: This afternoon, October 27th at 4:30pm
    • Details: Hot dinner will be served

    Visit from Bishop Sandra Steiner-Ball

    • Event: Introduction of Bishop Sandra Steiner-Ball to the community
    • Location: Coraopolis UMC (Western PA Conference)
    • Time: Tomorrow, October 28th at 6:30pm
    • Details: RSVP at https://www.wpaumc.org/

    All Hallows’ Eve Service

    • Event: Service commemorating the ancient Christian observance of All Hallows’ Eve
    • Location: Spencer (presumably another location within the church or community)
    • Time: Wednesday, October 30th at 7pm
    • Details: Encounter with reality of death and darkness, and Jesus Christ’s triumph over it

    Small Group Restarting

    • Event: Restart of small group/class meetings for faith growth and daily relationship with God
    • Location: Fairhaven UMC (or other specified location)
    • Time: Tuesday evenings at 6:30pm
    • Contact: Stormie

    Christmas Store Nominations

    • Event: Nominate families to participate in the Christmas store using provided forms
    • Location: Submit nominations via email or paper form placed in offering plate at Fairhaven UMC
    • Time: Deadline for nominations is Sunday, November 10th
    • Details: A committee will select families and contact them to schedule their time slot to shop on December 3rd
    • Contact: Lou Ann
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    Fairhaven Sermon 10 20 2024
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    In this week’s service at Fairhaven United Methodist Church, led by Pastor Rev. Peg Bowman, the congregation reflected on the theme of servanthood within God’s upside-down kingdom. The message was drawn from Mark 10:35-45, Hebrews 5:5-10, and Psalm 104. Pastor Peg emphasized that in God’s family, those who wish to be great must become servants and slaves of all. She pointed out that Jesus’ example of humility, as he served his disciples and ultimately gave himself for humanity on the cross, is our model for true greatness.

    The service also touched on the disparity between worldly notions of power and status, characterized by tyranny and control, and God’s vision for his people. Pastor Peg likened this difference to the American perspective on equality versus the British class system, using examples from TV shows like Upstairs Downstairs and Downton Abbey to illustrate the historical context of servanthood. She concluded by encouraging the congregation to trust Jesus and follow his example in serving others, finding freedom from self-promotion and joy in God’s economy.

    Transcript

    Well, we are here in the middle of October already. Last time I was with you, I was still preaching from the Summer Sermon Series. This week, we’re in a new series. We’re in a different month.

    We have a series this month, preaching series called the Upside Down Kingdom. And we’re talking about different places in scripture where at first glance, things seem to contradict each other. Just to give a couple of examples, we’re told in scripture that God is generous and gives freely to God’s people. And it’s good also to work and build wealth as God gives us the ability.

    But at the same time, Jesus says it’s easier for a camel to pass through the eye of a needle than for someone who’s rich to enter the kingdom of God. So we have this juxtaposition of teachings. And similarly, we had another contradiction. We’re told to love our enemies.

    The Apostle Paul writes in the book of Romans, If your enemy is hungry, feed him. And if he’s thirsty, give him something to drink. And then he says, In doing this, you will heap burning coals on his head. So it’s this back and forth.

    So today, we’ve got another one of these. Makes things interesting, doesn’t it? Today, our focus is on the saying of Jesus that the least among us is the greatest, and the greatest among us is the servant of all. Okay. So Bob Dylan once famously wrote a song called You Gotta Serve Somebody, which got a lot of interesting reactions from a lot of people.

    Thinking about this this past week, I realized that we Americans generally don’t have a whole lot of experience with servanthood, either as servants or as people being served. We tend to think of ourselves as essentially equals. That’s the American way, right? Says so in the Declaration of Independence. All people are created equal.

    Actually, it says, All men are created equal. But if it were being written today, I’m sure it would say, All people are created equal. And that would include people of different races and orientations and immigrants and people with disabilities. We still have some work to do on these ideals of ours, but it’s good to have the ideals.

    And at the very least, I think we would all agree that as Americans, no one is obligated to serve us, and we are not obligated to serve anyone else. Even in the work world, where we might expect to be asked to serve others as part of our work, and sometimes we do, for the most part, we work at will. We can quit at any time. We can change jobs at any time.

    We generally don’t think of ourselves as servants to our employers. Now, there was a time, I think, when that might have been different, maybe back in the 1800s, early 1900s, and I can remember my grandparents, and especially my great-grandparents, having servants in the home. Not full-time, but like one or two days a week, cooking, cleaning, doing laundry. But even these people worked at will.

    So I don’t think I really understood the nature of servanthood until I went to England. And I didn’t like it when I ran up against it there. And for that matter, I still don’t like it. It’s one of the things about England I could live without.

    Anyway, this really is, there really is a living, breathing class system over there, with some really weird rules. I mean, I’ve learned that Brits tend to behave in a humble way towards others if they’re not sure whether the person they’re talking to is above or below them on the social ladder. And I think that might be part of why Brits are so proper. And then there’s the fact that owners of places like Highclere Castle, which is where Downton Abbey was filmed, the owners of that castle will always be higher-ranking than, say, a member of the Rolling Stones, even though the Stones have more money.

    It has something to do with where or how you got the money. And then sometimes Brits can tell a person’s social status by what neckties they wear, which is really weird. Now, thankfully, as an American, I can pretend I know nothing at all about this, and I just ignore it. But they do catch on to that after a while.

    They don’t appreciate it. Anyway, looking at TV shows like Downton Abbey or Upstairs Downstairs, we can catch a glimpse of a system of servanthood that is hundreds of years old. And it was not an easy life for the workers, the household servants. They had set working hours, but they were essentially on call 24/7 as needed.

    On the other hand, the household servants were considered in many ways members of the family. There was a human relationship that went beyond mere employer-employee. And I was Googling around this week trying to find ways to describe this, how to put this into words, and I came across an excerpt of a book written in 1887 entitled How to Behave. This is not written for children.

    It’s written for men. This book was directed towards men who are masters of an estate. And it describes the ideal working relationships between the owners upstairs and the servants downstairs. And I wanted to share just a part of this to give you a feel for it.

    And again, remember, this is being directed to the master of the house. It says, We are all dependent in one way or another upon others. At one time we serve, at another we are served, and we are equally worthy of honor and respect in the one case as in the other. The man or the woman who serves us may or may not be our inferior in natural capacity, learning, manners, or wealth.

    Servants have rights as well as those whom they serve, and the latter have duties as well as the former. We owe those who labor for us something more than their wages. And the book goes on, The true gentleman is never arrogant or overbearing or rude to domestics or employees. His commands are requests, and all services, no matter how humble the servant, are received with thanks as if they were favors.

    So it’s sort of a formal, informal kind of a thing that we see, particularly if you watch Downton Abbey, you see that kind of transactions between the upstairs and downstairs. Anyway, according to the same website, there are still today about 65,000 domestic servants in the UK, including butlers, maids, cooks, valets, gardeners, chauffeurs, governesses, tutors, and so forth. One such servant was recently quoted as saying that, Being in service is almost like being married to the family. The servants are that devoted to their family.

    And as much as the idea of servanthood rubs Americans the wrong way, there’s one good thing I learned from all this, and that is that it stems from that family feeling, that personal loyalty. It also teaches me a little bit about servanthood just in general. Some of you might remember an episode of Upstairs, Downstairs, that was a while back, but there was one episode where the city-dwelling family, which is that they were the stars of the show, went to visit some relatives in the country for a few weeks, and immediately, immediately, there was a major conflict between the servants of the two houses. They just did not get along.

    They were nasty remarks. There was infighting, sabotage of each other’s work. And as an American, I was completely puzzled by this, but a Brit would have understood it right away. In Britain’s class society, the greater the master, the greater the servant, right? And these servants weren’t sure which of their masters was higher up the totem pole, so they were duking it out amongst themselves.

    They were fighting over which one of them was the greatest. Does this sound familiar to our scriptures today? Some things haven’t changed in 2,000 years. And before we start thinking that Americans are all that different, we do sort of have our own version of the pecking order. I mean, it’s more impressive in most people’s eyes to graduate from Harvard than from community college, and it’s more impressive to land a job in marketing at Heinz than at the Postal Service.

    I mean, but here’s the thing. If we’re serving God, then we are servants of the greatest. It is the greatest possible calling in life to serve God, and all of us have that calling. Every single person has that calling.

    A person does not have to have a paying job in the church to be God’s servant. All of us who serve God are servants of the greatest. But being God’s servants in God’s upside-down twist makes us servants of everybody else because Jesus came to serve. So with all of that as background and introduction, let’s turn to the scriptures now.

    First off, Psalm 104 today doesn’t really speak directly to the issue of servanthood other than the fact that all of creation serves God by declaring God’s glory. Psalm 104 celebrates the universe, creation, weather, fire, water, mountains, and valleys, all of them servants of God, doing what God created them to do. And we also, as God’s servants, serve best when we are being what God created us to be and doing what God created us to do. So in essence, Psalm 104 sets the stage for the other two readings.

    The reading in Hebrews comes closer to the point. And in this passage, the writer of the Hebrews is talking about Jesus as God’s high priest, which is a very Jewish way of thinking of things. In the Old Testament in Judaism, the high priest is or was chosen by God. A person would never put themselves forward for a job like that.

    He was a spiritual leader of God’s people. He had the duty of offering gifts and sacrifices for sins. And he was human, so he needed to make offerings for himself and his own sins, as well as the sins of others. And because of this, he could deal gently with sinners when they came seeking forgiveness.

    And the writer of the Hebrews takes all this and draws a parallel from this to Jesus. He says, Jesus also was called and chosen by God, not self-appointed. God said, ‘You are my son. Today I have begotten you.

    ‘ Jesus did not put himself forward, but followed God’s leading all the way to the cross. Jesus offered himself as a sacrifice for sin. And while Jesus does not share our human weaknesses, he can relate to them because he has been one of us. And having said all this, the writer of Hebrews then points out that Jesus is a priest forever after the order of Melchizedek.

    Now this is some fairly obscure Jewish theology, but here’s why it’s important. Jesus was not descended from Aaron or Levi. They were the patriarchs of the priestly tribe. Instead, Jesus is called a priest forever according to the order of Melchizedek.

    Now Melchizedek was a mysterious person who shows up in Genesis chapter 14 and visits Abram after Abram won a battle and captured a lot of wealth. And this is before Abram became Abraham. Melchizedek’s name literally means king of righteousness. And he is king of a region called Salem.

    And Salem, like the word shalom, means peace. So here we have the king of righteousness who is literally the prince of peace. He is also a priest of El Elyon, which translates the most high God. And Abram gave Melchizedek 10% of everything he had captured in the battle.

    In other words, he gave a tithe. Now needless to say, many theologians have put all these things together and come to the conclusion that this actually was Jesus visiting Abram before Abram became the father of the nation of Israel and before Jesus was physically born. There is certainly a connection somehow. Melchizedek is mentioned one other time in Scripture, and that’s in Psalm 110 verse 4, where it’s written, The Lord hath sworn and will not repent.

    Thou art a priest forever after the manner of Melchizedek. And this is the verse that the writer of Hebrews quotes to prove that Jesus is and always was a priest, predating the Old Testament priesthood even before the Ten Commandments were given. That’s a lot of history there. Having said all this, the writer of Hebrews then says about Jesus, Being made perfect, he became the source of eternal salvation to all who, we would expect the author to say to all who believe, but he actually says to all who obey.

    So why isn’t it salvation to all who believe? Because in Judaism, again, we’re looking at the backdrop of the Jewish nation and Jewish theology. In Judaism, there’s not a whole lot of difference between believing and obeying, because faith is something that’s meant to be put into action. Faith without works is dead. As Jesus would say, Why do you call me Lord, Lord, and do not do what I tell you? There’s more to faith than obedience, but obedience cannot be eliminated.

    It’s part of having faith. What good is it to believe in something if we’re not true to those beliefs, if we don’t live into them? That’s where the passage in Hebrews takes us. And now, at this point, with all that as background, we can turn to our reading from Mark, and we come to the point of all of this. So to give the backdrop of the Mark story, at this point in the Gospel of Mark, the disciples have been traveling with Jesus for a while.

    They’ve seen his power, they’ve seen his miracles, they’ve seen his popularity with the crowds. They know that Jesus is God’s Messiah, and they know that Jesus has been talking about a kingdom. Now traditionally in Israel, people with messianic messages have led revolutions to overthrow foreign governments. They have reestablished proper worship in the temple, things like that, so that Israel could worship God freely and live in God’s promised land freely.

    But Jesus has been trying to teach the disciples that he’s going to go to Jerusalem to die. But the disciples still have it in their heads that Jesus is going to reclaim the country for God. Therefore, James and John, they were called the Sons of Thunder back then, that was their nickname. The Sons of Thunder, they come up and they ask Jesus if when he comes into his kingdom, if they can sit at his right hand and his left hand.

    They wanted to be number two and number three in the kingdom when that kingdom comes. And of course this ticks off the rest of the disciples. It’s interesting that Jesus doesn’t say no. Instead he asks, or he says, You have no idea what you’re asking, which is true.

    And then he asks them, Are you capable of being baptized with the baptism I’m about to undergo? And he says this referring to his death, because baptism, which is by immersion back then, baptism by immersion is a symbol of dying and rising again. And they answer Jesus, We are able. And Jesus says, You will indeed be baptized as I am. But he says, It’s not up to me who will be seated next to me in the coming kingdom.

    That’s somebody else’s decision. And as a footnote to this story, as things turned out, James was the first of the twelve disciples to be martyred. James was killed by King Herod Agrippa in the year 44 AD. His brother John lived a little bit longer.

    He wrote Revelation while he was in exile, and nobody knows for sure where and when he finally passed away. Meanwhile, the other disciples were still ticked off about all this. So Jesus takes this as a teachable moment, and he says, Whoever wishes to become great among you must be your servant, and whoever wishes to be first among you must be the slave of all. And he goes on to say and describe how the great and the powerful people of this world lord it over everyone else.

    They are tyrants, Jesus says. They will do all they can to protect themselves and their prerogatives. They rely on coercion and control to maintain their dominance. Does this sound familiar? But Jesus continues and says, Not so with you.

    This kind of behavior is not for God’s people. This is not how we behave in God’s family. In God’s kingdom, we stand in complete and total opposition to this worldly kind of power. Even at the cost of our own lives.

    This is, as one theologian puts it, a radical renunciation of authority and privilege. As Jesus says, If you want to be great, be a servant. And the word servant here in the Greek is diakonos. It’s the word we get deacon from.

    We are all called to serve the way deacons serve. Even if we’re not officially ordained as deacons. In fact, Jesus goes further and says, If you want to be first, be a slave. Slaves are even lower than deacons.

    A side note on the word ransom, because that’s been taken the wrong way a lot of times. Jesus does not mean that this is the way, he doesn’t mean ransom the way we would normally mean it. It’s not a payment. The Greek word means something more like securing a release.

    So in other words, Jesus gets us out of jail free. That’s what he’s here to do. We don’t earn this, we don’t deserve it, but Jesus springs us from the prison of selfishness and loneliness and the powers of evil and darkness in the world, the powers that bring sin and death. We have been sprung from all that by Jesus’ sacrifice.

    All it takes is trust in Jesus. As things turn out later on in Jerusalem, Jesus does find himself enthroned on a sense on a cross with a sign over his head reading, The King of the Jews. Now the Romans were poking fun when they put that up there, but they gave Jesus his true title for the world to see and to know and to believe. And Jesus was seated, so to speak, and two other people seated on his right hand and on his left for all the world to see.

    And the one, the one on his right hand is the very first person ever to be saved by Jesus’ death, the first person to enter into the kingdom of heaven, the first reward to Jesus of his servanthood and his suffering. So Jesus calls us not to repeat the sacrifice on the cross because only Jesus can save in that way, but Jesus calls us to serve others in smaller ways, to put ourselves, to put others ahead of ourselves, not because society says that we should like they do over in the UK, but in ways that fulfill God’s commands to feed the hungry, to visit the sick, to visit the imprisoned, to help those in need, to welcome the stranger. And we become free from the desire for self-promotion and prestige as the world defines it. As this happens, we trust Jesus to lead us into the service that will bring us joy to others as well as ourselves because we serve the King who gave his all for us.

    So in God’s economy, the greatest or the least, the least or the greatest, and we follow Jesus who is the King of kings and the Lord of lords, the greatest, who made himself the servant of all. We serve the greatest, the greatest servant. Amen.

  • Book Study Series

    • Event: Six-session book study on Laceye Warner’s “Knowing Who We Are: The Wesleyan Way of Grace”
    • Location: Hill Top
    • Time: Tuesday at 6:30pm, beginning October 22nd
    • Details: Explore the heritage of Methodism and its relevance today. Books available on Cokesbury and Amazon.
    • Contact: Pastor Dylan

    Trunk or Treat

    • Event: Hill Top’s annual Trunk or Treat
    • Location: Hill Top parking lot
    • Time: Saturday, October 26th from 4-6pm
    • Details: Bring kids or hand out candy! If you’d like to participate
    • Contact: Lou Ann at (724) 624-4285

    Living Stones Free Community Meal

    • Event: Living Stones’ monthly free community meal
    • Location: Fairhaven United Methodist Church
    • Time: Next Sunday, October 27th at 4:30pm
    • Details: All are welcome for a hot dinner!

    Bishop Visit

    • Event: Meet & Greet with Bishop Sandra Steiner-Ball
    • Location: Coraopolis UMC
    • Time: Monday, October 28th at 6:30pm
    • Details: RSVP at wpaumc.org.

    All Hallows’ Eve Service

    • Event: Worship service for All Hallows’ Eve (Halloween!)
    • Location: Spencer UMC
    • Time: Wednesday, October 30th at 7pm
    • Details: An ancient Christian observance representing our encounter with death and darkness, but also Jesus Christ’s triumph over it.
  • ALL SAINTS’ SUNDAY NOVEMBER 3, 2024

    At Fairhaven Church, we will be commemorating All Saints’ Sunday by reading the names of the deceased individuals whose lives have had a profound impact on us. If you have a name of someone who has passed away since November 5, 2023, and would like to be honored during the service, please complete the form provided below. You are welcome to include all family members and friends who have passed away during this period.

    Kindly submit the completed form to Flo Black by October 30. If you will be unable to attend church on Sunday, October 27, please contact Fairhaven Church at 412-882-2544 and leave a message with the necessary information by October 29. When leaving a message, please provide a call-back number so that Flo Black may contact you if necessary to verify the spelling of the names.

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    Fairhaven Sermon 10 13 2024
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    In this week’s service, Rev. Dylan Parson opened with a humorous reflection on how spouses often seek opinions on small matters, only to dismiss the feedback if it doesn’t align with what they already wanted to do. He then connected this lighthearted experience to the more serious issue of making significant decisions in a relationship, like buying a house or starting a family, where mutual input is crucial. Rev. Parson used this analogy to emphasize the importance of listening to and following Jesus’ guidance, noting that while marriage is an equal partnership, our relationship with Jesus is not. We are called to trust and obey His direction fully, even when it’s challenging.

    Rev. Parson focused on the story of the rich young man from Mark’s Gospel, who asked Jesus what he must do to inherit eternal life, but ultimately walked away when the answer was not what he wanted to hear. The sermon explored the difficulty of letting go of the things we hold dear—be it wealth, possessions, or other attachments—in order to follow Jesus fully. Rev. Parson challenged the congregation to reflect on their own lives, asking what they might be unwilling to give up if Jesus called them to do so, and reminded them that true discipleship requires a complete release of anything that stands between us and our relationship with God.

    Transcript

    Every spouse, I assume, has had some version of this same experience. So picture this. You are asked for your opinion on something by your husband or wife. And whether they know it or not when they ask, they have no intention of actually abiding by that opinion.

    The three classics in my house include, and we didn’t hit any of them this morning, does this outfit look better with these shoes or these shoes? Should I cut my hair short or keep it growing long? Or do you like blonde or brown? And there’s no real point in any of these conversations, which I’ve had hundreds of times over the past 15 years, because it doesn’t really matter what I say. And if my answer happens to confirm what she already wanted to do, that’s great. That’s what she’ll do. And if not, it’s, I don’t know.

    And then she’ll choose the opposite thing. So it’s more like at this point, guessing what the preexisting preference is. And it’s fine. I’m not complaining.

    It’s low stakes. I don’t really care what shoes you pick. Hair’s good regardless. But this would become a significant problem in a relationship if the issues were more significant ones.

    The kind of things that whenever you get married, you implicitly agree to treat as shared decisions. So should we buy a house? Should we have children? Should we spend $10,000 on a jet ski? These are high stakes decisions. The kind that I would like to be consulted about meaningfully. And when I’m asked for opinion, I’d like it to be taken into account.

    I’d like it to be listened to. Because it’s natural, after all, that if you choose to devote your life to spending it with someone else, that each partner is supposed to be committed to shaping that life together, according to each other’s shared feelings, shared values. It’s not a perfect analogy, but in some ways it’s a similar situation to when we decide to devote our lives to Jesus as Lord. The major difference being that this is not an equal partnership.

    A marriage is an equal partnership, but not so much with Jesus, because Jesus is God and we’re not. Following Jesus, loving Jesus, by necessity requires orienting our lives towards what he asks of us. In the same way, listening to his response whenever we ask him what we should do. So this morning we’re beginning a series that we’re going to call the Upside Down Kingdom just for the rest of October, as we talk about the kingdom as Jesus teaches it in Mark’s Gospel.

    And so we begin with a story in Mark’s Gospel today about a man who comes to Jesus knowing that Jesus has the answer that he’s looking for. And then he declines to accept that answer when it isn’t the one that he wants. So Jesus, while he’s walking along the road, is met by this man who seems, at least tentatively, to have decided to follow Jesus. He sought him out here in the middle of nowhere and he calls him good teacher and he kneels on the ground at his feet.

    This is a guy that’s ready to listen to Jesus. He clearly holds Jesus in very high regard. And it seems he’s only come to ask one question, and that is, What must I do to obtain eternal life? And you only really ask that of somebody whom you believe has some real spiritual authority. You don’t just go up asking people that on the street.

    And Jesus answers, as usual, without really giving an answer to start out with. He says to him, You know the commandments. Don’t commit murder. Don’t commit adultery.

    Don’t steal. Don’t give false testimony. Don’t cheat. He adds that one in there, interestingly enough.

    Honor your father and your mother. The man presumably feels pretty good about his standing at this point because his record is clean. He says, Teacher, I have kept all of these things since I was a boy. But then comes the moment of truth.

    Jesus stops on the road. I think they’ve been walking for the conversation until now, but he stops. And he looks at the man carefully. And Mark tells us that he looks at the man carefully and loved him.

    He’s saying this very compassionately. It’s not supposed to be a gotcha or anything. And perhaps there’s a moment of silence because Jesus has an idea of how the man’s going to take it. But he answers the man again.

    He says, You are lacking one thing. Go sell what you own and give the money to the poor. And then you will have treasure in heaven. And come, follow me.

    And the man seems to be caught off guard by this. Mark doesn’t tell us that the conversation continues any further. The man doesn’t bargain. He doesn’t argue with Jesus and be like, Well, what if I just give this much? None of that.

    He’s just dismayed and goes away saddened, Mark tells us. He goes away saddened. And it’s really painful to read this story because this man has what is obviously a genuine desire to know Jesus, to attain eternal life. He knows that Jesus can give that to him.

    And beyond that, he has this recognition that Jesus has the words of eternal life. What he speaks is the truth that this man needs. But whenever the rubber meets the road here, the man says, No, thanks. And he walks away heartbroken.

    He’s offered exactly what he requests. He asked for this answer and Jesus very rarely, he doesn’t hear, he gives him the answer. He tells him exactly what he needs to do. He asks Jesus how he might gain eternal life and Jesus flat out tells him.

    He gives him a completely doable way to get there. It’s not going to be fun. It’s not going to be practical, but he says, Do this and you’re good. But deep down, the man doesn’t want to believe he has to do anything.

    He wants to believe that he’s good enough as is, or that he’s at least pretty close. He wants to believe that he’s somehow done enough to earn it, or that at most he might need some tinkering around the edges to get where he needs to get. He has this mental list, right, of how good he’s been and he’s expecting to be able to cash that in now. Not how it works, unfortunately, though I think pretty much all of us sometimes believe that about ourselves too.

    You know, we’ve been pretty good, right? But faithfulness is not about checking off commandments, a list of commandments in the abstract. It’s not about being a good person. You don’t get to heaven by being a good person, so to speak, which this man seems to be, and which I like to think I am. And Jesus should recognize that.

    We’re good people. No. It’s about following Jesus in our lives, doing what he calls us to do in the day to day. That’s a little more complicated than keeping a list of commandments.

    And this is a living commandment and it comes down to one thing that the man simply cannot get on board with, that following peace. It’s too much. It’s too costly for him. It’s not, it’s more than what he was prepared to give up.

    Walking away, it’s like he’s acknowledging that he knows Jesus is right, but is simply unwilling to make the change that he knows he has to. So after this encounter, Jesus debriefs with the disciples. He does this a lot. He’ll have a conversation with somebody and then he’ll get together with the disciples afterwards to kind of talk about what just happened.

    And so Jesus debriefs with the disciples and I find it a little bit puzzling how alarmed they are whenever Jesus says it will be impossible for a rich man to enter the kingdom of God. Why is this so frightening to them? They’re not rich themselves. They’ve left everything behind. They didn’t have all that much to begin with.

    So why does this scare them so much? And I wonder if it’s because they know also deep down that there’s something that each one of them is holding on to. Maybe not money, maybe not possessions, but something in there that Jesus has not yet asked them to give up, to let go of, but may well in the future. And they’re just dreading that day. They also want to believe that they’ve given enough, that they’re good enough at this point.

    They’ve done enough when none of those are the point. The following is the point, not doing anything. The following of Jesus is the point. The releasing of our grip on all that we hold dear, even if Jesus never actually asks us to give it up.

    That is the point. And so I want you to take a minute now and picture yourself as that rich young man. You’re going up to Jesus to ask Jesus yourself, what is it that you need to do to inherit eternal life? And be honest with yourself. What is the thing that Jesus could ask you to give up to which you’d have to say, You know what? No, I can’t.

    And just walk away. What is that thing? Because unfortunately, that’s the thing you have to be ready to let go of, if Jesus calls you to do so. But you got to be ready regardless. And look how harsh, how straightforward he is in laying that out for the disciples.

    Expect to leave behind your house, your brothers, your sisters, your mother, your father, your children, your farm because of the good news. And it’s a stinging message for us modern Christians who, you know, we can theoretically get on board with the letting go of wealth and possessions thing. We recognize it’s good to be charitable. But we’d rather not think about our discipleship coming between us and our loved ones.

    But Jesus flat out says, It might. You might be called to leave behind the people around you. Because the question comes down to fundamentally where our final loyalty lies. When it comes down to it, who or what do we place our complete hope or trust in? Who or what do we value more than anything, even our own lives and souls? Jesus’ encounter here with this rich young man is a story of Jesus challenging a person who whether he knows it or not is committing idolatry, even as he carefully adheres to the commandments.

    He’s keeping the commandments, but he’s not all the way there because his heart is not all the way in it. And we’re all susceptible to that in our own very specific ways. There are things that Jesus could ask us to do or we’d be, I don’t know about that. And yet, I also want to say this, just as this is a very personal question because it is a question that you should be thinking about, what is your thing that stands between you and God? Because there probably is one.

    We have to be crystal clear on this story that Jesus is unquestionably talking about money. Jesus is talking about possessions. And if you have any amount of either of those things, Jesus is speaking to you. There’s no way to sugar coat this story here.

    We Christians have been trying for 2,000 years to interpret our way out of this story since the very beginning in all kinds of clever ways, trying to justify holding onto wealth and things, whether we have a little or a lot. Maybe you’ve heard some of the more creative readings of this story. Some biblical scholars have argued, for example, that whenever Jesus says it’s easier for a rich man to get into the..

    . A camel to go through the eye of a needle than for a rich man to enter the kingdom of God, some people say, Oh, well, the eye of the needle, that was a specific gate in Jerusalem. It was skinny, but if you unloaded the camel, they could get through. I think that’s nonsense.

    I think Jesus is saying what Jesus said, and that it is impossible. I think Jesus means here what he says, and that should make us question. I will admit that I genuinely do not know, and the question weighs on me all the time, whether or not we are supposed to be giving up all of our assets and possessions and comforts to follow Jesus. I obviously have not done that.

    Maybe so. I really don’t know what Jesus is saying here. I really don’t know. Some of the holiest Christians in history have done exactly that.

    St. Francis of Assisi was this. He was a rich young man, inherited his father’s whole estate, left it to go live in the woods and preach to the birds. John Wesley, for the most part, did the same thing.

    He died without any money because every free penny that he had, he gave to the poor. He didn’t get his hair cut because it cost money that he could be giving to the poor. Many nuns, many monks sell everything they have when they enter religious life because they believe rightly, I think, that it frees them up to serve God more freely. Just think about this from a very practical lens.

    Think about it for us, for you. I bet that you would have a way easier time loving your neighbor, whether they’re close by or around the world, whether they’re sleeping on the street in Pittsburgh or working in a sweatshop in Bangladesh, if, would it be easier to love them if you didn’t have to worry about your property values? The return on your 401k, the cost of gas, right? And also, think about how a person who has millions, let alone billions of dollars, is deciding every single day not to save or improve millions of lives and instead keeping their bank account at a high number. And in many cases on a smaller scale, you and I are doing the same thing every single day. It’s a dangerous reality.

    And so, Jesus says that it’s hard for a rich person to enter the kingdom of God, period. It’s easier for a camel to squeeze through the eye of a needle than for a rich man to enter the kingdom of God. If you’ve always got to keep money in the back of your mind, and we all do, it’s impossible to love God with all your heart, your mind, your soul, and your strength. But in the end, in the kingdom of God, the first shall be last, the last shall be first.

    Those who have already given up everything for Jesus and out of love for others are rewarded in the kingdom. And those who have desperately clung to being first in this life find themselves starting farther away from God and perhaps on the wrong side of that needle’s eye. And I hate to say with this story that there is no simple lesson here. There’s no easy steps that you can take in your life or mine that can be drawn from Jesus’ conversation with this young man.

    It’s just a challenge. That’s it. But what Jesus teaches the disciples here as the rich man sadly walks away, unable to let go of the things that stand between him and eternal life, is that following Jesus requires us to let go. Whatever it is, whatever it is that you’re keeping this white knuckle hold on, so long as it’s not Jesus, it is a barrier to full relationship with God.

    No matter how good or reasonable that seems, it’s a barrier. And you are here in this place this morning in worship because I hope you’re seeking to live into your relationship with Jesus Christ. You pray, meanwhile, because you’re seeking to hear what Jesus would lead you to do, how you should live, how to best love God and your neighbor. So don’t go to Jesus like this poor rich man, confident that Jesus has the answers, and then walk away when you get the answer that you were looking for, but not the answer that you like.