• Don’t forget to visit Fairhaven today it’s our Election Day Food and Bake Sale!

    The United Women in Faith are holding their fundraiser by selling lunch and baked goods. Eat in or Take out! Spread the word….it’s the best food in town!

    The United Women in Faith ladies work hard and will appreciate your support!!

    Among the amazing menu items you’ll find for sale are:

    • Hot and Sweet Sausage 
    • Hot Dogs 
    • Pulled Pork 
    • Homemade Soups 
    • Cold Drinks 
    • Desserts
  • Election Day Food Sale at
    Fairhaven
    and Spencer

    Soup and Sandwich Sale and Spencer Bake Sale:

    • Event: Soup & sandwich sale at Fairhaven UMC and bake sale at Spencer UMC
    • Location: Fairhaven UMC / Spencer UMC
    • Time: Election Day – All day – until food runs out
    • Details: Stop by for lunch and treats—everyone is invited, regardless of whether you vote at these polling places. Best lunch in town!

    Online Book Study

    C.S. Lewis Book Series (Zoom):

    • Event: Ongoing book study – The Great Divorce
    • Location: Zoom (hosted by Pastor Peg)
    • Time: 7 pm Sundays (ongoing)
    • Details: Reach out to Pastor Peg for the Zoom link.
    • Contact: Pastor Peg (contact details on the church website)

    Online Bible Study

    Weekly on Bible Study with Dave and Sue Smoyer (Zoom):

    • Event: Ongoing bible study
    • Location: Zoom (hosted by Dave and Sue Smoyer)
    • Time: 7 pm Wednesday night (ongoing)
    • Details: Reach out to Dave Smoyer for the Zoom link
    • Contact: Dave and Sue Smoyer with any questions

    Spencer’s Annual Swiss Steak Dinner

    • Event: Swiss‑steak dinner hosted by Spencer UMC
    • Location: Spencer UMC
    • Time: Thursday, November 6, 5–7 pm
    • Details: Reserve or order ahead for dine‑in or take‑out.
    • Contact: Karen Lenigan – (412) 596‑6435

    Christmas Store Nomination

    Giving & Support to our communities at Christmas time

    • Event: Submit nominees for this year’s Christmas Store
    • Location: All South Hills Partnership churches
    • Time: Deadline Sunday, November 16
    • Details: Return a paper form or submit online at www.shpumc.org/Christmas-Store.

    Mabel Speicher Friends of Fairhaven Gala

    Benefit Dinner & Auction:

    • Event: Gala dinner & auction hosted by Fairhaven UMC
    • Location: South Hills Country Club, Pittsburgh
    • Time: Saturday, November 22, 2025
    • Details: Invitation link: Fairhaven Gala 2025 Invitation

    Christmas Poinsettia Sale

    • Event: Order a poinsettia and it will help decorate our sanctuary for the Christmas Eve Service. You are welcomed to take it home after the service.
    • Location: Fairhaven UMC
    • Time: Order by November 23
    • Details: Poinsettia Order Form Download
    • Contact: Flo Black
  • Get ready for an elegant night of dining, bidding, and community support at The Mabel Speicher Friends of Fairhaven Gala Benefit Dinner & Auction on Saturday, November 22, 2025, at the beautiful South Hills Country Club in Pittsburgh.

    The evening kicks off at 6:00 P.M. with a charcuterie reception and a thrilling silent auction. Dinner begins at 7:00 P.M., followed by a live auction led by our special guest auctioneer, Scott Harbaugh from WPXI Television!


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    Fairhaven Sermon 10 26 2025 MP3
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    Summary

    In this week’s service, Rev Dylan Parson opened with a contemplative look at the quiet weight of cemeteries, noting how in Ohio towns the graves of early settlers stand as silent witnesses to a forgotten past. He drew a line from those long‑gone families to the present, reminding us that while their names may fade, God’s work does not. Parson anchored the sermon in Genesis 1 and Ezekiel 37, using the vision of dry bones to illustrate how God’s breath turns lifeless dust into living flesh—both literally for the dead and metaphorically for us as believers who are called to participate in this divine renewal.

    Parson urged the congregation to see beyond the bleak image of stacked gravestones and recognize the promise that “the saints will not remain unnamed.” He spoke of God’s command to Ezekiel—“Prophesy over these bones”—and how that ancient proclamation echoes today, inviting each of us to claim the same breath of life offered through Christ’s resurrection. Concluding with a call to remember that we are not the forgotten bones of the past, but recipients of God’s living spirit, Rev Parson challenged the church to move forward with renewed hope, knowing that where there is God’s breath, there is also the power to rise again.

    Transcript

    And so the town in Ohio where I went to college was settled by people from colonial Massachusetts. But now they’re forgotten. And most in that cemetery, because it was so old, belonged to people whose families and loved ones are long gone too. But that’s not true of how God works.

    And God reenacts this moment that we see in Genesis chapter 1, where breathing into lifeless dust, he creates Adam. As individuals with hearts and minds and souls and dreams. God enlists us to participate in it. was at work in Christ when God raised him from the dead and sat him at God’s right hand in the heavens, And so I found in Europe last year, by first time there, it’s really jarring to go into a cathedral or some great ancient church in Europe and find yourself surrounded in the ground, in the walls, by all these dead kings, these archbishops, these poets, these literal saints in some cases.

    The God who puts skin on dry bones, who puts breath in dead lungs, promises that the saints will not remain unnamed. These stacked gravestones really bleakly represent the fear of death, what death looks like. So you have the winged skull that’s very classic on stones from that era. to prophesy to a valley full of dry bones.

    And this valley that was moments ago a lifeless desert, hopeless, depressing, overwhelming with just the sense of decay, is now an ocean of living, breathing human beings. And say to them, And the way that it’s designed just makes you feel like you’re somewhere on the edge of Salem in the 1700s. What is the richness of God’s glorious inheritance among believers? Prophesy to the lifeless bones that litter our world, the dry bones of injustice, of despair, of sickness, of fear, of just not caring. Nameless, silent, numberless, jumbled chaos.

    Ruach can also mean spirit. It can also mean wind. These bones will live because Christ lives and through him, so can we. which is inevitable over two centuries.

    God’s not going to teach Ezekiel anything. And then he answers God with a statement that’s really a question. But awaiting this word from God to restore them to life, to put breath in their lungs, to put skin on their bones once more. whips through, rips among us even now.

    And well before he even finishes the prophecy, this sound erupts. And so nestled in the back of this burying ground, in the back corners, in the shadows underneath the trees, there’s a couple piles back there. Now that said, the prophet Ezekiel has a different outlook on this. But also through Ezekiel, God promises that God’s going to bring them out of the graves.

    Now, Ezekiel doesn’t say yes. Now, if we’re to prophesy, we need to know what to say. And so the correct answer to can these bones live again, human one, is see for yourself. But the promise from God remains here.

    And it’s like you’re confronting a pile of bones on one hand, but also this hope that surrounds you. There are times in our lives when we feel like we’re nothing more than a pile of dead bones. And sometimes I think we even feel worse than hopeless. And the word of life comes from God.

    and standing among tombs, standing in a cemetery, Human one, God calls to Ezekiel once more, prophesy to the breath. Israel back in Ezekiel’s time, these people possess no hope at all. But to return to the cemetery here for a minute. They can’t be read.

    I don’t think they were mostly done on purpose, This promise comes from God to Ezekiel, but it’s transmitted through the human ones. They’re never going to stand next to the place where they originally marked. In the deepest darkness of this valley, when we’re standing among bones, when we are bones, What does this look like? You all have heard this before, particularly around this time of year, but I love cemeteries. I think we feel apathetic.

    Presumably, the prophet doesn’t have much of an appetite for offering answers, for offering All of that that’s mentioned in this story is all the same. God’s not going to verbally impart some wisdom, some way of understanding the world. What is he doing? And so God responds back to Ezekiel, who’s given a good answer here, not with wisdom, not with theology or some sort of explanation, but with a command. God tells Ezekiel what to say, what to believe, what to prophesy.

    And what is the overwhelming greatness of God’s power that is working through us believers? Sounds like an earthquake. In some ways, I think it’s a shame that we no longer live among our dead in urban America and we keep our distance. but things freeze, things thaw and freeze again. God, in this story, could have spoken to the bones in this valley This powerful wind moves within you, You have the finger that’s pointing towards heaven, reminding everybody that walks past that you’re going to die.

    And he says, Lord God, only you know. I envision Ezekiel wading through waist deep bones, our hope can be that the greatness of the past, As God walks him through this valley of bones, you imagine his sandals crunching on teeth It was on the western frontier at the time towards Columbus. The wind that carries Ezekiel, the breath that goes into the bodies, all of that’s the same word. As far as they’re concerned, they’re completely finished.

    far above every ruler and authority and power and angelic power, I think that’s worse because that means we don’t care. It’s got this black wrought iron fence around it, and the markers are that old brown sandstone. They’ll be raised up. And filled with divine breath, these people rise and they’re a new creation.

    And the bones all clatter together. Can these bones live again, God asks. And whatever person they told of, whatever lifespan, is just vanished. They’ll be filled with spirit once more.

    that same spirit that carried Ezekiel into the desert. All our hope, all that we’ve ever held onto is just lifeless, it’s just cold, a heap of tombstones. And breath in the Hebrew here is the word ruach, which means all kinds of things in Hebrew. Of the great cloud of witnesses, of the saints that have come before, of all the hopes of the past, life, death, past, present, future, all in one place.

    the legacy of love, the hopes that have come before, In the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit. Amen. Roots tear through the soil. certainty about matters of life and death and the power of God.

    I always have. This back corner of the cemetery is just chaos. And that’s a good answer. They’re not going to remain these blank gravestones piled up in the corner.

    That’s the quote from Ezekiel. And so they have this beautiful old graveyard, like a burying ground, they call it in Puritan style. that God and Christ who rose is opening the way for us to do that too. They find the others that they belong to.

    You know, hopelessness at least still recognizes that hope exists as a possibility. Instead, God gives him something to do. scrambling onto a big rock that’s like an island in the middle. God’s breath turns dust into life.

    Never to be aware that their ancestor’s gravestone is out of place or missing or damaged. And the Apostle Paul, who knew the resurrected Jesus, is telling the church this same kind This power is conferred by the energy of God’s powerful strength. It’s God’s power, but it’s Ezekiel who dares to live it out, who dares to speak it, that They’ll be given a home on rich, fertile land and all things are going to be new again. all by himself, without Ezekiel even there, And they’re held above the grass on these wood shims.

    I was an unofficial tour guide for the cemetery in Slippery Rock when I was a teenager. any power that might be named now or in the future. none of that’s actually passed. Many of these gravestones had been eroded by acid rain beyond readability.

    Because the obvious answer, our answer, is flat out wrong. And God, to be clear, does not disagree that they’re hopeless. And so Ezekiel prophesies to the bones exactly as God tells him to. And God tells Ezekiel, prophesy, tell this wind, this spirit to fill these bodies and make them live again.

    These bones, the Lord explains to Ezekiel, they represent all the company of Israel, the children of God. and fingers, all this white dust kicked up behind him. The gravestones that are scattered above ground will never stand again, and the bones below them never. It’s hidden away like junk in a closet, all these forgotten people and things.

    God makes him a participant. This is our breath. They reassemble into human bodies with muscle and skin. He’s just been carried by this wind of God, teleported into this apocalyptic location.

    Amen. But one thing, even as I found a lot of peace there that always troubled me, is that over time, many of those stones had fallen. But I think here’s the astounding thing that Ezekiel shows us about that. He climbs up and he yells, dry bones, hear the Lord’s word.

    We draw a little closer this year in spirit, if not in proximity, but in our cemeteries, for the most part, we put them out in the distance. and commanded them to live once more, to rise up, to march, to be revived. Not the granite we have now, but the old weathered sandstone. None of these promises that are in Ezekiel, They’re stacked, like back and forth, like Lincoln logs.

    One is like life breath that’s in all living creatures, the breathing that marks us as alive, life breath. They’re not going to remain dry bones. And more so, I think, than the stones that are still standing..

    . And this is what happens. This is in our lungs. And Ezekiel prophesies.

    I did a couple walkthroughs on the history days. This is the command that we’re given. God’s power is..

    . of conversation, the church in Ephesus, here in Ephesians 1, as we heard: I pray that God says, prophesy over these bones. Like, theoretically, things could be better. And nameless, countless, identical bones are pulled together as people.

    And we’re certain that nothing is ever going to get better. Whenever Paul is speaking, God refers to these people as being in graves. Prophesy the Lord God proclaims, I am opening your graves. that are in the New Testament, that are in Revelation, He says all of that word for word.

    actually makes it happen. And the people, this extraordinarily large company, Ezekiel says, the Hebrew word is the same as like a legion or an army. The answer a human one like you or I or Ezekiel would give, which is that the dead stay dead, And I love to walk there, particularly in the fall. And it’s just dozens and dozens of sandstone slabs.

    And God asks, Human one, can these bones live again? No. And they’ve got all these stark Puritan symbols on them. Human one. Because this is what God does.

    I just like being there. All the saints of the past that we’ve loved and cherished, the hopes that we’ve held onto, The overwhelming greatness of God, the Ruach, the Ruach, This is the reality of death, of decay, of destruction. But they’re still not alive, Ezekiel says. And I wonder, what does it look like? none of that is past.

    You know, there’s something about the environment that’s very peaceful to me. And this is how I imagine the bones, the valley into which God drops Ezekiel. But apathy is worse because apathy is the darkest kind of depression. You, human ones, are sent to speak to the bones.

    So Ezekiel doesn’t know what he thinks. But that’s not how God does it. It’s present. We say like Israel did, our bones are dried up, our hope has perished, we’re completely finished.

    the eyes of your heart will have enough light to see what is the hope of God’s call. It’s now. They used to mark a grave somewhere in there. God’s not finished yet.

    It’s still what God is doing. How can what is dead live again? So he hesitates a second, right? Instead, God turns to Ezekiel. You don’t even have this desire for things to get better. To be in these resting places, like in Westminster Abbey, there were probably more dead people in there than living people.

    They’re together. It’s an army of people that stands up. is true by the laws of nature, right? the joys, the dreams of the past, those things are never dead and gone. They’re all there.

    They come to life. But they’re not living. You. You just kind of are.

    You prophesy to the bones. They stand on their own two feet after being nothing more than a pile of bones. Right? Amen. You.

    And they’re like, oh, my God. But, You prophesy. And. God refers to these people as being in graves.

    We’re completely finished. Amen.

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    Fairhaven Laity Sunday 10 19 2025
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    Summary

    In this week’s service, James Campana delivered a thought-provoking sermon centered around Lady Sunday and the vital role of lay Christians in ministry. He challenged the traditional clergy-laity dichotomy prevalent in many churches, arguing that it contradicts biblical teachings and limits God’s work. Campana emphasized that God equips every individual with gifts and talents to serve others and bring praise, asserting that the mission of God should not be confined to clergy alone.

    Drawing on the story from Mark’s Gospel where Jesus instructs his disciples to feed a crowd of 5,000, Campana highlighted the extraordinary power that flows through ordinary people when they respond to God’s call. He used the analogy of a carpenter building bridges instead of fences, illustrating how acts of reconciliation and service, performed by everyday individuals, can create connections and demonstrate God’s transformative power. Ultimately, Campana concluded that we, as the church, are called to participate in God’s work, building bridges and extending His grace through ordinary means.

    Transcript

    Well, today is Lady Sunday, and as such, we focus and celebrate the ministry of all lay Christians by having lay people plan and lead the entire worship service. First off, a big thanks to those who graciously agreed to be part of this service, including Rachel and Brian, who worked tirelessly behind the scenes to produce these awesome visuals that you see. And thank you all today for attending. As your administrative chair, I constantly ask myself, what is wrong with the church in our society today? Why is it declining? Why is it apparently seemingly lacking spiritual vitality? No doubt, many factors could be cited to explain why churches and even denominations plateau and decline.

    But I believe that this enormous and comprehensive anomaly is that somewhere in church history there developed the notion of clergy, those paid to do ministry, and laity, those who receive the ministry. This clergy-laity dichotomy model suggests that ministers are paid to do the ministry and that the common folks in the pews pay them to do it. But this is not what the Bible teaches us at all. What we find in the Bible may not be what we have accepted through tradition, but it is what God intends.

    I strongly believe that the mission of God cannot and should not be limited to clergy only. God has given leaders and leadership gifts to every church, equipping them to do the work of service or ministry. God has blessed each one of you with gifts and talents and resources. And we have received our godly gifts for two purposes: to serve others and to bring praise to God.

    This dynamic truth means that everyone is to be engaged in ministry, not just the work of some hired holy man or woman to do all the ministry. We are the church, you and me, and Laity Sunday helps keep us and that thought in perspective. After a hard day’s work by Jesus’ disciples, he tells them it’s time to rest. So they pile on a boat and sail away.

    Can you just imagine their relief? peace, quiet, rest. So when they pound the boat, there they go, up the coast. The disciples were ordinary people, and Jesus gave them rest. in an ordinary way.

    The plan was to land up the coast a piece, but the crowd could see where Jesus and the disciples were going and the word spread. And by the time they landed, a crowd had already assembled, 5,000 plus in all. Yet, instead of being frustrated, Jesus has compassion for them and he begins to teach them. Now, it’s getting on towards supper time and the disciples say to Jesus, Hey, we’re out here in the middle of nowhere in this countryside.

    It’s beautiful, but there’s nothing here. Send these people away so they can go and buy something to eat. You give them food to eat, Jesus tells them. What? How is that possible? We have no money, they reply.

    Jesus says, Go, look, and see what you do have. The disciples walk through the crowd gathering five loaves and two fish. Have the people sit down, Jesus tells them. So the disciples have the people sit on the fresh green grass.

    Jesus blesses the food and gives it to his disciples to give to the people. They pass it out, up, down, around, and some more. Everybody eats until they are full. The disciples then gather up the leftovers.

    Twelve baskets full, after 5,000 people were fed. and some more. What just happened here? The disciples were ordinary people, and they were doing a very ordinary thing, passing out food, waiting tables, people eating. Hard to think of an activity that isn’t more ordinary.

    They were passing around plain old bread and some fish too. You can’t get more basic than bread. So we have ordinary men doing an ordinary task with ordinary food. It’s hard to think of anything more ordinary, more run of the mill than that.

    But what really happened? Jesus multiplied the bread. How did he do it? Where and when did this happen? Unfortunately, Mark’s text really doesn’t say. And that, my friends, is the point. It’s not about how Jesus multiplied the loaves and the fish.

    It’s about how he fed the people. Remember, the disciples’ plan was to send the people away. But Jesus said to them, You feed them. Notice, Jesus didn’t say, I’ll feed them.

    His plan was for the disciples to feed the people. But the disciples didn’t get his plan, and they did not understand. By now you think they would have. They’ve seen miracles before.

    In fact, they had just done miracles themselves, as Mark relates earlier in his gospel. Jesus gave them the authority to cast out demons to heal the sick and they not he had gone out earlier and done that then they came running back telling Jesus everything that they had done so now Jesus tells them you feed them but they don’t get it They were blinded by their own unbelief, so blinded that they did not even see what they did have. Jesus had to tell them, go, look, see what you have. They bring Jesus the bread and the fish.

    He blesses them and gives it to his disciples to hand out. We don’t know from the text whether they are believing Jesus just yet, but they are at least willing to obey him and hand out food to the people. Do you see what’s happening? Jesus is doing an extraordinary thing, providing food for the people. He is multiplying the bread and the fish so there is more than enough for all to eat.

    Everyone’s needs are met. And yet, how is Jesus doing this? He’s doing this extraordinary thing through his disciples. Jesus did not change his plan. His plan was for the disciples to feed the people, and they do.

    They are the ones handing out the food. Jesus is an extraordinary God doing an extraordinary thing through ordinary people. The disciples aren’t able to multiply this food on their own, but they hand it out at the command and the word of Jesus, and everyone is fed. And in their doing, the ordinary becomes the extraordinary.

    And that’s the way God works, isn’t it? The water is plain water, but at the command and word of Christ through ordinary human hands, it becomes baptism and does extraordinary things like cleansing sins and giving faith. simple wine, ordinary bread, but that the command and the word of Christ through ordinary human hands, it is the life-giving meal of his body and blood, uniting us with him and each other. We are the church. We are the disciples.

    We are the baptized. We are the believers. We are the followers of Christ. But we cannot do the work of Christ on our own.

    But by the word of Christ, God does the work in and through his church, through us, the laity. Just as there were more than enough bread, God keeps doing extraordinary things through his church. We, you, me, are just ordinary people. Fairhaven is an ordinary church in an ordinary town.

    But our God is an extraordinary God who does extraordinary things through ordinary everyday means. It’s when we do ordinary things at the command and the word of Christ, the extraordinary happens. Once there were two brothers. Their father had a large farm, and when he became too old to work, he called his sons to him.

    I will divide my farm in half and give each of you one half of it. When the brothers first started farming on their adjoining farms, they were the best of friends and would share everything together. Then one day, there was an argument between the two brothers and they stopped speaking to one another. For many years, not a word was spoken between them.

    One day, a carpenter came knocking at the door of one of the brothers saying, I would like to do some work. Do you have any work that I can do? The brother thought for a moment and replied, I would like you to build a high fence on my property. Build it down near the stream there that separates my farm from my brothers. I don’t want to see my brother anymore.

    Later, he went down to see the carpenter’s work and was shocked. Instead of building a high fence there, he had built a bridge over the stream. At the same time, his brother walked toward him from the other side. After all the terrible things that I’ve done over the years, I can’t believe that you would welcome me back, his brother said.

    The brothers hugged. Later, as the one brother walked back up to his farmhouse to talk to the carpenter, he asked, Can you stay? I have more work for you to do. The carpenter answered, I’m sorry. I can’t stay.

    I have to go, for I have many other bridges to build. We are no longer ordinary people. God transforms us into living epistles through our actions. It’s only when the light and love of Christ shines in and through us that God’s work is done.

    God has done the extraordinary in you. He has called you, he has washed you, and he has made you his own. Having redeemed you, he is willing and able to do the extraordinary through you. We may be ordinary people, but we belong to an extraordinary God.

    The disciples had their plan. Often we have ours. What did Jesus say? What was his plan? Jesus didn’t say, I’ll feed them. You feed them.

    His plan then is the same as it is now for his disciples, for us, the laity, to feed the people. I realize that nothing I have said this morning is particularly original or insightful, but then again neither am I. I am just an ordinary man serving an extraordinary God. I am not I’m sure you would like me to stay and elaborate more on the subject of laity.

    But I can’t stay. I am the church. And you are too. I have to go.

    For I have many other bridges to build. So do you. Amen.